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My husband and I don't make a fortune, we work and live check to check, like a lot of Americans. A couple of our friends have been having dramatic, horrible personal problems over the past year, (drugs, abuse, destroying each other's personal property like their cars, thier clothes, throwing each other out, getting arrested, trashing each other's cares...). They have 2 teenage children. The oldest is their 19 y/o boy, soon to be 20 moved out with friends. The 14 y/o girl has been staying with us (at her own request) for about 2 months now. Father NEVER calls. The mother calls and comes by (occasionally and always around dinner time...) but doesn't seem to be in any hurry to make definite arrangements for her daughter to come home. She has never offered any financial support, helped with groceries... Doesn't even ask her daughter how she is... but when I asked if we could make a decision as to guardianship or custody, she went ballistic and says things like "that's MY KID, are you crazy..."
School recently started and my husband and I bought her everything she needed and take her back and forth. She is a good girl and gets counseling through her school free of charge and gets free meals (I got her registered and the school worked with me as they are well aware of her home situation and kind of swept the "you're not a legal family member or guardian" thing under the carpet thank goodness.
I want to know if anyone has any ideas if we can get assistance for her to get her the things she needs. She is, like I said, a teenager and seems to need a lot of things and eats like a horse! She is active in school activities and sports.
She is so sweet and her situation is so sad. She does well in school. I want to help her, but not being a parent, and not even being a legal guardian I don't know what I can do!
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