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Posted: Jan 3, 2012

I need a serious opinion. We have friends who have 2 cats, full-breed, who they have had daily bonding with for a good 2 years. Said friends are going on a 3-month trip out of the country and are boarding the cats here in the states. The one cat (before owners have even left) is showing signs of something isn't right--getting out of the house and not duly returning home, peeing smack dab on top of the bed.). These cats are brother and sister, and will be somewhat separated during their boarding---I think they'll be next to eachother, but not in the same space.

What are your predictions on their behavior when owners return home and have them back in the house? People they sort of know (like we friends) will be visiting them, but not in their "space." Owner is going to get them and bring them out to see us.

I say this is nuts.

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I would answer, but "feline owner" poster might - attack me, so I wont

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Apparently there are books on the subject. I am sure this situation is covered in a book somewhere.

Who needs DVMs, animal behavioristists, when there are MTs? - FelineOwner

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All those DVMs who go on to study animal behavior are WASTING THEIR TIME.

All ANY pet owner has to do is ask the resident GENIUS high-school-educated MT here on the MT Stars forum, who knows EVERYTHING about animal behavior! She doesn't even need a DVM -- she knows EVERYTHING already!! All those people are IDIOTS wasting time and money getting an education!!

Spread the word, everyone! You don't need to consult your vet or read ANY books written by experts. All you need is the opinion of the sage, all-knowing MT.

No need to be so catty, IMO! - nm

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It sounds to me like you are looking for more than an opinion. Maybe it's just me, but it sounds like you do not approve of your friends going away and are looking for others to support your feeling. What do you mean when you say "this is nuts?"

Cats - LR

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I'm not looking for serious advice, just observations. Yes, I do think it's nuts that these people are boarding their already-bonded-to-them cats for 3 months.

Just wondering what the consequences might be after, not that any of we friends can do anything about it. The Longest we ever left a cat was 2 weeks, and we got the "back treatment" for about a day or so.

Yes, they have been packing, and the one cat is already acting nuts.

My experiences... - Not a cat expert.

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First, if your friends have NOT begun to pack for their trip (suitcase out, piles of new stuff lying around), then it would be wise to take the cat to a vet. Sudden behavioral changes can be a cry for help. If there is travel stuff lying around, he may be showing signs of anxiety and, again, a vet might be able to help with a relaxant of some sort. As far as the cats' behavior when they go back home, hard to tell. Every one has a different personality. I boarded 2 cats for a couple weeks, and when we came home, 1 walked around and explored, the other hid behind a dresser until the next day.

FWIW, I think it is nice the owners are asking friends to visit the cats while boarded. When I worked for a vet years ago, I recall the boarded pets being so excited when we talked to and played with them. I say, the more visits, the merrier.

They probably sense something is up. They're - (sm) - Meerkat

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good readers of body language and vibes. There's probably a little bit of excitement, tension, bustling about getting ready for the trip. Maybe the kitty carriers have been pulled out of mothballs and are now in view.

Mine know when I'm going to leave the house (something I don't do often anymore, due to being an MT!) When they know I'm headed out the door, one gets kind of needy and whine-y, and the other scampers around and tries to get me to play with her.

I once had to board the younger, playful one at a kennel for 10 days, and even though it was a nice place, (upstairs floor, no dogs), and she had her own window and little multi-level run, her own toys & bed, etc., after I brought her home she was kind of insecure and traumatized for about a week. She would cry in her sleep and appeared to be having bad dreams - would settle down after I woke her up and reassured her.

So yes, I would expect some changed behavior after boarding the cats for a while. For short trips I prefer to have a trusted neighbor pet-sitting come care for them at my house, but sometimes boarding is necessary. I guess all they can do is give the cats lots of love & reassurance when they return, and eventually when they realize things have gone back to normal again, so will they.

seriously, they are cats they dont care who feeds them - as long as they are fed

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cats, people.

Let me guess, you have never had a cat?...nm - soontobeHappyMt

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I have a cat and she is fickle. She really doesn't - care who feeds her, as long as she gets fed.

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Not the poster you were asking, but I have the same experience.

they may not care who feeds them - catowner

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but they certainly care about the daily affection that they normally get. When a cat is used to being with someone all day and then all of a sudden is left to be alone for a period of time, days, weeks, they do miss the attention. We went on a vacation and the cat was kept in the basement while we were gone because we didn't want him running around the house. Neighbor would come over daily just to feed and clean box, and our cat would chase her up the stairs and she had a hard time getting out of the basement because the cat was right there wanting to get out with her. When we got home, he walked around the house meowing for hours and hours on end, following us everywhere. All cats are different and some may react in a bad way such as starting to pee outside the box (which you said one is already doing). No matter what, they are going to react in some way.

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