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very bad diagnosis for my husband. sm


Posted: Dec 2, 2010

since some seem to think I was hateful before, and ridiculed me even when I asked for forgiveness, and ridiculed my tears.   Here's hoping there are still some of my fellow MQers who can understand and have prayer with me.   Today we found out my husband, who is already on disability, has colon cancer.  he will need to have complete abdominal reconstruction once again.   I know this is in God's hands.  I myself have endured 3 months of constant kidney infections, on top of uncontrollable blood sugars.  I need to have a partial nephrectomy.  I am on a lot meds, and all of this in the last couple of weeks was more than I could take with NJA and needing whatever I could. 

I did come across strong.  I only wanted the OP to realize that life is short and our moments are precious with our family and loved ones.  Do NOT fret because your computer did not get there yet.  You got a free paid vacation. 

It is a Season of Hope and Love.  I do love people, and I am only human and took it personally at a very vulnerable time in my life right now.  I go back to work to make up time at doctor's today for this very bad news and crisis in my family.  The Crisis Center cannot help me.  Only I can help myself.    And I DO wish I could flip cartwheels Gal Friday. 

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very bad diagnosis for my husband. sm - ververyoldMQMT - Lorrie16

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I wish nothing but the best for you and your husband. I am struggling to start a new career as an MT to supplement my disability. I am a little past my first year as a student, I will be 55 next month, and am studying with a passion to complete an AAS degree in MT. My prayers are with you in this desparate time of need. I wish nothing but the best for you. I do understand the plight of struggle, so hold your head high, good things will come.

thank you... sm - ververyoldMQMTer

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I just realized this site on MTStars. It is appreciated that there is one. I could not believe the flaming my response received before on MQ board. Again, it is good to know there are some who have compassion.

Yes, there are many who still care for the well being (sm) - Yochana

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of our friends. I think sometimes posters use this board to flame at others when actually they have personal problems that are hard to cope with so they take out their anger/frustration/whatever as they can be anonymous. Praying for you and your family. God Bless.

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