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Does anyone else have a husband who yells at you sometimes? My husband will yell and cuss at me if I forget to do something or don't do somethng he thinks should have been done. Like tonight, he called (he is a truck driver) and was close to home and asked me did I order his new cell phone last night. Well honestly I forgot as I was working and we were backlogged with work and I got busy and slipped my mind. This evening before working I had to go get some plywood at Lowe's to have for someone to fix my subflooring in the kitchen where a pipe leak underneath wet it. Well I am leaving Lowe's and the traffic is AWFUL. He calls and says go to Walmart and get me a orange hunting vest. He was going hunting in the morning when he got home and needed a vest. I said the traffic is terrible. Can you wait or stop somewhere and get one yourself at a Walmart. Well he starts yelling in the phone NO, GO TO WALMART AND GET ONE. I NEED IT IN THE MORNING. So I go get it. I am almost home and he calls. He says you still aren't home yet? Well I need you to plug in my dog collars (collars for hunting dogs so they won't get lost). I said well I am not there yet. I get home and oh BTW I had to feed his hunting dogs, which I always have to do when he is gone, which I love dogs so I don't complain too much but some wives probably wouldn't. But I'm the animal lover of course. I do that and am plugging in his collars and he calls asking about the phone, if I ordered it. Well I told him I forgot and he went to yelling and cussing at me and said all I was worried about was the D**n plywood to fix the kitchen floor. Just went off on me. I do so much for him, at least I think I do, and I am human and I do forget things. I didn't say much on the phone because my mom was here. When she left I called him back and I said look, if you can't talk to me like a person should be talked to and the way you would like to be talked to then don't call me. He said whatever, bye. So I came in here to go to work and sit down and just cried. If I yelled at him and cussed at him for not doing something I wanted him to do he would be appalled. And I would be yelling at him all the time because most of the time if I ask him to do something he doesn't do it. He would just think I was the most awful person. He does this about once a month or so and I just feel so let down. I am sorry for the long rambling. I had to vent. I don't have anyone else to vent to here. Also I am getting to the point where I don't look forward to his coming home and I sometimes hate to answer the phone when he calls because of the fact he can be such an a-hole
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