A community of 30,000 US Transcriptionist serving Medical Transcription Industry

Husband seriously considering joining the Navy

Posted: Jan 8, 2014

He started thinking about the military a few months back. He went to a recruiter yesterday. He made a 92 on the practice ASVAB (highest is 99) so he's good to go there. He does have to lose about 25 pounds so that is the reason for the delay. I am behind him 100% and proud of him for at least trying to turn his life around. He has been a musician but after years of unsuccessful attempts he is realizing at 33 he will probably never reach the fame he so desperately wants. So, he has decided to join since this is the last year he can do so and get an education. I told him it is never to late to learn. I am back in school myself for social work.

So the point of my post: Any Navy wives out there? What to expect during basic training money wise? I know they don't get paid until after they are through with it. I need to know how to plan financially so we won't be totally destitute during that time. Do you generally get to go with them to the base that they are stationed at? We live near and my husband works at an Army base but I know this is much different from the Navy as obiovusly they are out on boats for months at a time.

Any info is much appreciated!

;

If the Navy is anything like the Air Force - xx

[ In Reply To ..]
if your husband has musical talent, especially if he can play one or more instruments, he could get into one of the Navy musical units. If he is hoping to get training in a different career field, that may not be what he wants to do, but if he wants to use his musical talent in the Navy, he should make his musical skills known to the recruiter and at every step along the way as he is processing and training.

I was in the Air Force, so things may be different in the Navy, but I would expect not too different with regard to the musical units. The folks who went into the musical units made rank very quickly, much more quickly than everyone else, so that might be something to keep in mind when he is deciding what he wants to do.

Wishing him the best!

wow great advice thanks. I will most definitely pass this along to him - Hopefully soon to be Navy wife

[ In Reply To ..]
x

He can research the various options - xx

[ In Reply To ..]
for musicians in the Navy ahead of time so he has an idea of what is available and which opportunity is the best fit for him. However, if he wants to be in a musical unit and the one he wants is not available but they offer him some other type of musical opportunity, he should consider taking it. It is very likely that after a while he might be able to transfer to the one he wants if he does not get into it the first time.

Also, if he cannot get into a musical unit right out of boot camp, he should go ahead and do the other training available to him but keep trying for the musical opportunities every time he has a chance. They recruit from within, so not getting in on the first try does not mean he will never get to use his music in the Navy.

sweet thanks! keep the suggestions coming! - I am forwarding this to his inbox

[ In Reply To ..]
so he can read all of this. You guys are awesome!

Husband and Navy - Old Pro

[ In Reply To ..]
I don't have a husband who was in the Navy, but I do want to say a "thank you" to your husband for being willing to defend our country. Please thank him for me. I respect and support our military.

I sure will and thank you for your kind words - n/m

[ In Reply To ..]
x

Not an Army wife - but...

[ In Reply To ..]
...kudos to your husband for wanting to better himself. I do hope that he didn't just go in for the perks. He CAN get called to duty. Please always know this in the back of your mind. The whole idea is so that we have strong men and women to defend our country; the education, etc., are perks, incentives.

Best of luck to you. You and your husband need to keep your minds and souls open to that he may have to do battle one day, and you are both commended for your duty!

We value our men and women of the forces---they help keep our country safe!

yes he said if a war breaks out he wants to be on a ship - one reason why he picked Navy

[ In Reply To ..]
thank you for your kind words!

Sorry, I said Army - Meant Navy-see msg

[ In Reply To ..]
I know in the back of my head that they are all different branches and that there is some playful banter competition amongst them, but nonetheless, I should have addressed Navy, not Army--apologies to you.

Either way, I think the scope of all is the same; that is, to do good by our country.

Bless you for seeing what may really need to be done, and not just going in for the perks.

I always shake the hands of military when I see them in a restaurant or whatever, and thank them for their service. I so like to believe they all go in for the good of the country.

Best to you and thank you!

Suggestion - Retired Military

[ In Reply To ..]
You can look up the requirements for military musicians online. They usually have degrees in music and are selected by auditions. It is highly competitive. It isn't really a choice at the recruiter's office. There are sometimes music opportunities on a more informal basis at duty stations, though.

My suggestion would be for your husband to choose something that translates into a civilian job. He can complete a degree in the Navy and get a job using his Navy background as experience. Anything medical is a sure bet--corpsman, OR tech, radiology tech, lab tech.

If he is offered the opportunity for OCS, he should take it.

I was Navy, sm - ChickieMomma

[ In Reply To ..]
Granted it has been a very long time, but we were paid during basic training. If he goes in as an E1 though, it isn't a lot of money at all. I imagine these days it is all electronic deposit.

You will be able to go where he is stationed, depending on where that is. If he gets overseas, a lot of bases do not allow spouses/family for E3 and below. I was in Iceland and base housing (no option for off-base housing) was E4 and above only, and there was a waiting list close to 9 months back then. Things of course change, but this was my experience.

As far as playing an instrument, you can do that in the military, but like someone else mentioned, very competitive! My husband played in a band at the local bars when off duty and had a blast.

Yes, you do get paid - X-Navy

[ In Reply To ..]
basic training just like any other job, although it may not be all that much. Depending on his career choice (assuming he gets in) there may be a LOT of separation from the family involved, especially if he ends up on a ship. You didn't mention what instrument he plays, but Navy band units consist of pretty much professional caliber musicians, and are only a tiny percentage of all sailors.

Choosing corpsman (medical, which is what I was)can provide some good civilian job skills, but most likely will lead to being stationed with a Marine unit and likely these days in a war zone, something recruiters often "forget" to mention. Some guys actually relish this, but it is something to think about, as it can be very dangerous. I was offered corpsman when I flunked out of electronics school which was pretty much sending me to be cannon fodder. It was a short course, a cross between EMT and LPN, but can lead to nursing or other specialties. However, before most in my class could qualify for that, they had to serve with Marines which was not so bad since it was back in the peaceful and partying '80s. We did plenty of camping out in freezing temps, hiking for miles, exercising, digging holes, firing weapons and some medical care, and I have a lot of fond memories of it. Since I was single and younger, traveling and relocating was not so much of a problem.

Bottom line, if your husband actually does get into the Navy (I hear they are very selective these days), it will be a seriously life altering event for you and your family (sometimes not for the best, as military life is far from sunshine and roses even in the best of times, especially for family folks).

Good luck!

Getting in shape for Navy - Bobo

[ In Reply To ..]
If he is serious about losing weight, have him join a bootcamp class or crossfit class in your area if one is available. I do one 3 nights a week and we cover everything in the hour - yoga, weights, cardio, strength, balance, running. It's a killer class but I toned up quickly.

music in military - Effie

[ In Reply To ..]
My cousin's husband played the drums in the Army for about 10 years.. he then got out of the music part and did computers for another 10 and then retired. He loved being in the Army band BUT be forewarned that he will NEVER be home on a holiday.. he will be performing somewhere..

but don't they have to spend 6 months at a time on a ship? - sm

[ In Reply To ..]
I seriously dated a Navy guy several years ago and he spent 6 months at a time on a ship in the middle of who knows where with a bunch of other guys who did the same.

No, not if they are not assigned to a ship - There are fixed installations

[ In Reply To ..]
NM

Similar Messages:

Nov 07, 2012
I have decided I'm tired of being in the part that busts my hind end trying to pay my bills and taxes, including over 1000 a month for health insurance for two people (which went up over 300.00 because of Obamacare already). So, I am going to quit 2 of my 3 jobs, and go get some food stamps and perhaps apply for disability. I truly believe in helping my fellow citizens that NEED help out - but come on, it can't be the few supporting the many and that is where w ...

Apr 05, 2010
They are coming around and seeing what is really going on. http://www.cnn.com/2010/POLITICS/04/02/democrats.tea.party/ ...

Sep 14, 2015
I went to the movie Saturday. You almost have to rob a bank to go now. The popcorn for the medium size was $7.00. Ticket prices before 5 o'clock were $8.00 per person regardless of age. This got me to thinking about AARP. I do not think the prices would be any different for the movies but for other things. If anyone has AARP could you tell me a little about the savings you have found. TIA ...

Jan 26, 2016
I am sure the Republicans are trying to figure out how to get a normal candidate to come to the forefront. There just isn't one. And Falwell, Jr. endorsing him, I would think the evangelicals would be really upset about that. How in the world do evangelicals follow Trump? ...

Aug 16, 2011
Just my opinion, but I think Chris Christie would be better off finishing his term as governor and then running in the next election - I like him, but it's just too soon for him. Paul Ryan should also think twice about this, as he's not exactly Mr. Popularity, even with some conservatives. I like him, too, but I don't think he coud garner the support he would need. Thoughts on this - no slams, please. ...

Nov 25, 2009
Just caught a bit of this story. They arrested a terrorist and he's claiming they punched him? Now they are on trial????? Where's the justice??? This is the type of lop-sided politics that is killing our country. As for the Gitmo trials, they don't belong in NY. They weren't arrested in NY. They were arrested in another country by the military. U.S. Law does not cover this. Military law does. They are being held in a military prison Read up on it. They should go to tri ...

Aug 15, 2012
against Obama - regarding taking credit for killing Osama Bin Laden and for putting American citizens in jeopardy with his so-called leaks. Hope it's soon. Can't wait to see them. ...

Aug 11, 2013
Goes far beyond a scandal. Link ...

May 05, 2011
Each day I grow more impressed with what the SEALs were able to do: According to Jim Miklaszewski on msnbc.com: The U.S. officials describing the operation said the SEALs carefully gathered up 22 women and children to ensure they were not harmed. Some of the women were put in “flexi-cuffs” the plastic straps used to bind someone’s hands at the wrists, and left them for Pakistani security forces to discover. So in the midst of this tense (to say the least) situation, the ...

Aug 07, 2011
All of them took part in Operation Geronimo. So, the last evidence of Osama's operation is finally wiped out. Nobody will ever know what happened at that night in abottabad, Pakistan. It more looks like a CIA's covert operation than Talibans. ============================== A NATO helicopter that crashed in eastern Afghanistan killing dozens of U.S. military personnel, seven Afghan troops and an interpreter was apparently shot down by insurgents, says a senior U.S. official. At le ...

Sep 16, 2013
"Several" killed but not confirmed, 10 wounded. Shooter is contained in building and injured somehow, but not in custody. One report stated there were 2 shooters, but also not confirmed. ...

Sep 16, 2013
Or they used to. I'm not sure. But exactly how many Navy Yards are there out there near DC? It's a bit stressful. I don't want to call and bug them. I'm sure they are fine. They're already stressed out enough as it is. I feel like screaming. *thanks I feel better* ...

Jul 24, 2010
This is truly amazing! ...

Oct 27, 2012
http://www.menrec.com/2012/10/video-father-of-slain-seal.html http://www.thegatewaypundit.com/2012/10/appalling-biden-asks-father-of-dead-seal-did-your-son-always-have-balls-the-size-of-cue-balls/ http://nation.foxnews.com/tyrone-woods/2012/10/27/father-slain-seal-tyrone-woods-slams-cowards-white-house ...

Oct 22, 2013
Navy officer charged with trading secrets for Lady Gaga tickets Cmdr. Michael Vannak Khem Misiewicz, a high-profile U.S. Navy commanding officer, was arrested on federal bribery charged, accused of trading classified information for Lady Gaga concert tickets and prostitutes. Also charged in a recent U.S. District Court hearing in San Diego was Leonard Glenn Francis, the CEO of Glenn Defense Marine Asia Ltd., and John Bertrand Beliveau II, a special agent for the Naval Criminal Investig ...

Oct 23, 2013
The recording didn't copy, but the link below will provide it. I'd line Erik Rush's own site, erikrush.com, but my quick search didn't turn it up there. Erik Rush: Navy Yard Shooting Carried Out To Prevent Obama From Being Arrested For Treason Shortly after the mass shooting at the Navy Yard in Washington, DC earlier this month, Fox News contributor Erik Rush began declaring that the attack was a false flag operation that was "part political diversion, part gun- ...

Jan 12, 2016
nm ...

Aug 25, 2016
Obamatollah's buddies are poking the bear. ...

Oct 11, 2012
Barbara Doherty tragically lost her son, Glen who was one of four Americans killed in the attack on the Benghazi consulate. Barbara Doherty told local Boston ABC affiliate WHDH 7: I don't trust Romney. He shouldn't make my son's death part of his political agenda. It's wrong to use these brave young men, who wanted freedom for all, to degrade Obama. ...

May 18, 2014
what would you think he meant? I had no breakfast, had a cup of coffee. It is almost 12 noon here and what he was talking about was my brunch which was 2 oranges. ...

Mar 15, 2011
I don't know where else to turn. Saw this forum and decided to post. My husband and I have been married 11 years. Yes, we have had ups and downs with finances, etc., but I have a good job now and we are able to save and all was good, or so I thought. I have felt a distance between us for a month or so and I asked him what's wrong. He said he is just broken, doesn't care anymore, and just wants to leave. My world just turned upside down. We ...

Nov 07, 2009
Does anyone else have a husband who yells at you sometimes? My husband will yell and cuss at me if I forget to do something or don't do somethng he thinks should have been done. Like tonight, he called (he is a truck driver) and was close to home and asked me did I order his new cell phone last night. Well honestly I forgot as I was working and we were backlogged with work and I got busy and slipped my mind. This evening before working I had to go get some plywood at ...

Dec 14, 2010
The left anterior descending coronary artery had mild husband. ...

Dec 02, 2010
since some seem to think I was hateful before, and ridiculed me even when I asked for forgiveness, and ridiculed my tears. Here's hoping there are still some of my fellow MQers who can understand and have prayer with me. Today we found out my husband, who is already on disability, has colon cancer. he will need to have complete abdominal reconstruction once again. I know this is in God's hands. I myself have endured 3 months of constant k ...

Feb 16, 2010
Would you be able to lie to him to fudge appointment times, etc, to get there on time? We've been married 25 years, and I knew what I was getting into even before I married him. I pretty much have learned to live with it. But sometimes I'm tempted to tell him that an appointment is for, say, 1:00 when it's really for 1:30 because he has a tendency to start to get ready about five minutes before time to be there. But then I think of him sitting there in the ...

Nov 22, 2010
I need some advise on how to handle an irritable husband. Of late, my husband is so irritable. It is driving me nuts. He is always biting my head off or just impatient with me and my children. He works nights, and it is so bad that when the children hear him getting up for work, they go to bed. They do not want to be around him. I am feeling the same way. He can put me in a bad mood instantly with his irritability and negative attitude. I don' ...

Feb 28, 2010
Dear Diary, For my birthday this year, my husband purchased for me a week of personal training at the local health club. Although I am still in great shape since being a high school football cheerleader 43 years ago, I decided it would be a good idea to go ahead and give it a try. I called the club and made my reservations with a personal trainer named Christo, who identified himself as a 26-year-old aerobics instructor and model for athletic clothing and swim wear. Friends seemed plea ...

Jul 06, 2011
RETIRED HUSBANDAfter I retired, my wife insisted that I accompany her on her trips to Target.Unfortunately, like most men, I found shopping boring and preferred to get in and get out. Equally unfortunate, my wife is like most women - she loves to browse.Yesterday my dear wife received the following letter from the local Target:Dear Mrs. Harris,Over the past six months, your husband has caused quite a commotion in our store. We cannot tolerate this behavior and have been forced to ban both of you ...

May 11, 2011
I don't know about you all, but I HATE having to ask my husband for money, for anything! I make enough money to cover my personal expenses and the household bills and he pays the mortgage, loan on the cars and his personal expenses. We take turns buying the monthly groceries. It comes out pretty even, the only differences is, he has left over money from his check and I do not. I stopped asking years ago because he'd give me the "where did all your money go" with att ...

Mar 13, 2012
Background is my husband tends to drink too much and then tends to gamble too much. He will literally go through hundreds of dollars sitting at the local bar on the slot machines if he has the debit card... thus he no longer has a debit card, but he will take mine and do the same thing. The other day he took my vehicle; had to run to the bar for something and would "be right back." After several hours passed, I called and asked where the ***#*# he was and some other not-so-nice ...