Divorced Mom, raised 2 sons and proud to do it

This message is in response to a post responding to my previous post "turned away from ER outraged...." in the below post concerning Prop 187...

Yes, I am sincere and I am very proud.  I raised 2 sons on my own, working 2 and 3 jobs, they both graduated from College without debt to pay back, because we all 3 worked and we all 3 had a goal we knew we had to reach, and yes still being a "payer."  So I am supposed to feel sorry that people sneaked into OUR country illegally and they use their children to their benefit.  I am sorry, maybe I am old school, but I do not think there is anything wrong with expecting people to accept responsibility, and certainly not to use a child to benefit the adult. 

This is the biggest problem with the whole liberal approach.  While I was in line to vote, a lady I used to work with ended up being in line in front of me with her husband.  She told me she hoped someone would help them because it was the first time they had ever voted, and they were not young folks.  Jokingly I said I'll help you if your voting for the right person.  She said, Obama, I said, "Oh no, you don't want me to help you."  She went on to say they were voting for Obama because Romney would take their welfare and food stamps away from them, that they had been contacted and told this would happen. 

This is a common belief among some folks, and in my opinion a very poor reason for choosing who you are going to vote for.  Unfortunately, the Obama camp used this sector, yes used them, fear tactics, promises they won't be able to keep long-term, etc.

Three of my best friends are immigrants, my brother-in-law is an immigrant and they all came with Visas and they all work and support their families.  So yes, I am against assuming responsibility for those who break the law and in essence take away from OUR OWN U.S. CITIZENS that are honest and need help.