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Posted: Jun 4, 2015

were you able to maintain a friendship with the ex DIL or SIL?

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My daughter was on friendly terms afterwards - and I was also

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I really liked my SIL. Do not know what the cause of the divorce was.

I will be civil for the sake of the children - sm

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After all these bozos are the biological parents of my grandchildren.

No matter how stupid they are....they still deserve respect for that.

I try to remember that I'm setting an example for my children and grandchildren. Of course, that may explain why sometimes I'm so grumpy here.

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