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I really need some help here and this is the only place to get it fast. My husband and I are separated. I caught him having "affair" at work, he was paying for some lady at work's car repairs, and sabotaged my daughter's attempt to work in this lady's department, along with lots and lots of lies and secrets and covering up. Short story, when confronted, he moved out and filed for divorce (and, of course is blaming me for the whole thing, saying I kicked him out - but he was out in less than a week). Now his father died. Lots of history with him and his dad, but he called me last night and I said I would be there for him. (I must be stupid). While laying awake all night, I realized that on 12/13 he has to decide to continue with the divorce, as the 90 days wait are up. I really don't want to go out on a limb for this guy and have him turn around and cut me off at the knees with this divorce right after. On the other hand, I should be more generous, after all his dad died. He told me not to do anything I am uncomfortable with. (the nicest he has been in a long time, for sure). I figure I can talk to him again and tell him I will come to pay my respects but his time with his family should not include me, it would be inappropriate as we are divorcing, for me to stand in the grieving line with him, or spend the entire day doing this viewing and funeral. What's your opinion on what I should do?Thanks in advance for all your help.
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