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Does your hubby read your emails?

Posted: Jan 29, 2010

Do you have personal space?

He notices everything that comes in with my name on it he is retired and has a lot of time on his hands drives me nuts

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nuts - LA woman

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NO! That's nosy, disrespectful and plain rude. Maybe he's insecure and suspicious.

I don't understand? Don't you have your own account and password? - nm

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No, I use Outlook and the passwords are stored in it. - NM

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change your password and do not store it. - n/m

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I cannot say I have my personal space - sm

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and no, DH does not read my emails ... nor do I read his. There are times I will tell him to check mine, or he tells me to check his (we have seperate accounts).

But DH and I have nothing to hide from the other, I don't care if he was to read mine.

I guess my personal space is my bedroom...and I prefer it when DH is in there with me! LOL

No, but I read his sometimes - Sara

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I have to because he tends to forget and misses important stuff. We have the same primary email account so I can do that.

We each have our own computers - ..

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but it wouldn't bother me one bit if he wanted to read my e-mails or me to read his.

If it bothers you, why not ask him to stop? - Fingers

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Hubby and I do not read each other's e-mail. I would not care so much if he did, but I feel sometimes it would be an invasion of privacy to the person sending it, like my sister, daughter, or a couple of friends. Probably stuff he is not really interested in anyway.

Never, he and I each have own computers and - Knowing

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I am just not into peeking into his business and I am sure he feels the same.

yes, I agree, same here.... - emails

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nm

nuts - mizz behavin

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I don't think any couple should ever feel that they cannot access/use each other's e-mail, cell phone, voice mail... for fear of finding that their partner is up to no good. My partner and I frequently use each other's cell phones and have a joint, as well as separate e-mail accounts.

On the other hand, my partner does not, nor do I, intentionally and purposefully go searching each other's accounts and phones looking for "something". We respect each other's privacy and trust each other.

Why not talk to him instead of letting it drive you nuts? Maybe he's just going through the retirement blues and getting antsy in his pantsies? haha! Suggest a hobby, part time job, honey-do list...

Yes, and it's ok by me. - Sharing

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We have full access to each other's everything. We have nothing to hide, and it makes us much happier to know that!

I agree - nothing to hide

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Privacy is overrated. I was single a long time.

No, DH respects my privacy - Mary - see message

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and I respect his. Would never dream of reading his emails, nor he mine. You need to get a separate computer, and you need to get a separate email like hotmail or yahoo or many other free ones out there. My BIL and his wife share email, but there are just some things that people need private. Not that you're trying to hide anything, it's just called "personal".

Yes. He also stalked my Facebook page so I deleted him - RubySoho

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Deleted him as a friend on Facebook, not from my life.

I dunno why some people get insecure like that. He'd question me about every male on my friends list and any comment I made to a male or a male who made a comment to me.

It got kinda old. Especially when I found out HE had an ex-girlfriend on his Myspace friends.

I mean, fair is fair, right?

So rather than argue or debate over something as silly as FB and MS, I simply deleted him as a friend and ignore his add requests.

If he's going to be so suspicious, I'll REALLY give him something to be suspicious about, lol!

I actually get my DHs email for him as he is too lazy - sm -

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to get it. He does not use his email though and if he gets one in I usually end up reading it to him as he asks me to. A for regular mail, he gets bent if I open anything personal then though. Of course he has no problem with opening up anything personal of mine that comes in the mail. But as I get the mail 95% of the time it is a non-issue really. I just make a point of handing him anything I know is not junk that has his name on it (except bills, I take all them), makes him feel important for some stupid reason. Shred the rest after I open it confirming it was junk.

He does not mess with my computer as he knows it is my work computer and has never to my knowledge ever read any of my emails. If I ever email anything I don't want him to see I hide it and inform the receiver I want it kept private and from him. I have only done that a couple times ever, and if he'd seen them it would not have been the end of the world, all stuff he knew about but he is very funny about me discussing anything regarding him to others. I can only imagine it will get worse when he retires which if he got his wish was last June.....but in reality he needs to work until June 2014 so we can get a severence package from his job, he is not old enough as yet to get it, presuming they will still be offering them at that point in time. Hopefully we wil get the chance to find out!

Does Hubby Read Email - EagleEye

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No, but then again even if he did read my email I have nothing to hide.

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