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Ever felt like you lost many friends at once and don't know why? sm


Posted: Mar 29, 2010

I don't know what happened... one week I was getting texts and calls and emails from lots of friends, then last week nothing... I had to really reach out to get in touch with anyone and lots of people just haven't returned my calls or texts.  As far as I know I haven't changed anything.  Maybe it is just a strange coincidence and everyone was extra busy or in an anti-social mood?  I feel like I sound childish about it but it has been probably 5 people or so?  I had a lonely week last week and I'm hoping this week will be much better :(

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It may just be that people are out and about more now that Spring is here. - You get out too :-) NM

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I don't know about you but it's really hard - making friends

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I live in a very rural area, and it's so hard to find other women to connect with. I love being hospitable to people, making them feel welcome, comfortable, but it seems these days that repels people rather than draw them.

It does get tiring being the only one to reach out. If I don't drive the distance or make the phone call, I don't see them or hear from them. But....I don't let that dictate my mood or question my own worthiness. I like who I am and who God made me to be.

I fully understand people have lives and are busy. They also have excuses. I have two school-age children in music and sports and a full-time job. Come on now--I'm just as busy but do seem to find the time to reach out.

My husband says it's because I'm a straight shooter. He says, "Hon, you don't drink, don't gossip, don't cheat, don't brag, and if they tick you off, you say 'hey, what's your problem...talk to me.'"

Just try not to let it bother you. I also get lonely for company, especially working out of my home, but it is what it is. Considering I don't hear from them much, I would still always be there if they needed me.

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