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Today would have been my husband's 66th birthday.


Posted: Nov 11, 2013

I've been sitting her bawling all night, crappy job, crappy life.  Can't wait to retire, just over 2 years to go but who's counting.

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Hugs to you. - Please sm.

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I am sorry for your loss. You go right ahead and let it all out. There are a bunch of virtual shoulders to cry on here. When you are ready, you will stop, pick yourself up and realize just how strong you are and that things will be all right. Hang in there.

I hope you made his favorite cake and had a huge slice - ill sing along with you

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Although my singing is horrible, it is loud enough that I'm sure he will hear it just up in heaven. Dont cry anymore, he wants you happy and remembering him full of life and love. Sing out loud and have a glass of wine with your cake! I am sure your husband is looking down right now wishing he could wipe those tears! Big hugs!

Thanks, I needed that. nm - nm

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nm

Big Hug to you, too! - Frosty Mug

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Very sorry about your husband. Wish I could think of something to say to make you feel better. Just know that there are a bunch of us out here giving you a big hug!!

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