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Delaware becomes 11th state to approve same-sex marriage


Posted: May 7, 2013

Delaware becomes eleventh state to approve same-sex marriage
May 7th, 2013
05:54 PM ET
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Delaware becomes eleventh state to approve same-sex marriage

 

(CNN) – Delaware became the eleventh state in the nation to legalize same-sex marriage Tuesday after the State Senate approved the measure and the state's governor signed it into law.

Gov. Jack Markell, a Democrat, signed the bill following a 12-9 vote in the State Senate passing the measure. The State House approved the bill in April.
 

While the state had an existing civil unions law, the new measure allows gay and lesbian couples to legally marry. Rhode Island, Iowa, New York, Vermont, New Hampshire, Massachusetts, Connecticut, Maine, Maryland, Washington and the District of Columbia all allow same-sex marriage.

"Today, we wrote a new chapter in our history and proved, once again, justice and equality continue to move forward in Delaware," Markell wrote in a statement following the bill's signing.

His approval was echoed by Delaware Attorney General Beau Biden, the son of Vice President Joe Biden.

"This is a historic day for Delaware," Attorney General Biden wrote. "Because of today's vote, all Delawareans will be equal under the law and free to choose whom to love and whom to spend their lives with."

In March, a divided United States Supreme Court heard arguments over the legality of two marriage laws – the federal Defense of Marriage act, which defines marriage as between one man and one woman, and California's Proposition 8, which bans same-sex marriage.

The nine justices hinted at disparate views on the hot-button issue, though it was far from clear how they will rule. A decision is expected in June.

Opponents of same-sex marriage include some religious and socially conservative groups. Brian Brown, the president of the National Organization for Marriage, wrote the new Delaware law "redefines marriage for everyone" in the state.

"Every marriage will now be genderless," Brown continued in a statement. "That means that anyone who cannot accept this radical and flawed change to marriage is going to be subjected to punishment."

But gay rights activists hailed the law's passage, saying it represents momentum for supporters of marriage equality laws across the nation.

"As America waits for rulings from the Supreme Court on two historic marriage cases, Delaware today took decisive action and guaranteed equality for the thousands of gay and lesbian couples of that great state," said Chad Griffin, the president of the gay rights group Human Rights Campaign. "Thanks to principled impatience from state leaders in Dover, the momentum for LGBT equality continues unabated."

CNN's Sara Fischer and Kevin Liptak contributed to this report

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who cares anymore....same stuff - different day.

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our country is going down the tubes and THIS is all anybody cares about? about what goes on in someone else's bedroom? gees.

Question. - sm

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Are you married? Is what's going on in the bedroom all your marriage is about? If not married, was that all your parents' marriage was about? This is not an issue of who's laying whom. It's all about equality under the law...the bedrock on which our nation was founded.

With all this crap Obama is pulling, (sm) - Abby

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NOW you're worried about the bedrock under our nation. Oh, brother.
Who said anything about being worried? - 11 states and counting.
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Equality marches on while some stay stuck in the mud spitting nails, ranging far and wide off topic, embittered about honest democratic results from 6 months back and ignoring moderator admonishments against personal insults.

I care! - Lucille 2

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Marriage is much more than what goes on in the bedroom. To be preoocupied with that aspect of other people's lives/relationships/marriages is kinda pervy.

Anyhow, it's about equal rights. Pretty important stuff. If you don't like the subject, then choose from one of the far more important topics discussed below. Haven't you heard that the Obama's had a party 4 months ago, and the Gov. of NJ is obese? Very important!

I'm not the one concerned about what goes on in people's bedrooms or - 'right behind them' "puns." OP

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I'm concerned about equal rights for all people, regardless of sexual orientation.  Since civil unions do not, and never would, include all the same rights as marriage, then I am by necessity a staunch proponent for gay marriage. 


 




 


Victory for lesbian, years after her longtime partner's death



By Greg Botelho, CNN

updated 10:48 AM EDT, Wed March 27, 2013














STORY HIGHLIGHTS


  • Edith Windsor and Thea Spyer met in New York and were together more than 40 years

  • They couldn't legally marry in the U.S., but they did tie the knot in 2007 in Toronto

  • When Spyer died, Windsor paid a large inheritance tax -- then fought it in court

  • A court rules their union was valid; the Supreme Court will take up the case next year




(CNN) -- It was a wonderful life.


That's how Edith Windsor describes her partnership with Thea Clara Spyer. Theirs was not a fleeting romance -- the women were together 42 years sharing ups and downs, laughs and tears. They also shared what they'd earned together, including from Windsor's job as a programmer with IBM and Spyer's work as a psychologist.


"We were mildly affluent and extremely happy," Windsor said. "We were like most couples."


But even after they married in 2007 in Toronto, some 40 years into their courtship, the two women were not "like most couples" in the eyes of the state of New York, where they lived, nor in the eyes of the U.S. government, which under the Defense of Marriage Act mandates that a spouse, as legally defined, must be a person of the opposite sex.


This fact hit Windsor hard in 2009, while in a hospital after suffering a heart attack a month after Spyer's death. As she recovered and mourned, Windsor realized she faced a hefty bill for inheritance taxes -- $363,053 more than was warranted, she later claimed in court -- because Spyer was, in legal terms, little more than a friend.



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"It was incredible indignation," Windsor recalled feeling. "Just the numbers were so cruel."


This anger gave way to action. Why, she and her lawyers argued, should her relationship with Spyer be any different when it came to rights, taxes and more than a heterosexual couple? Why should Windsor have to pay, literally, for losing her soulmate -- even though, by 2009, New York courts had recognized that "foreign same-sex marriages" should be recognized in the state as valid?


In October, Windsor, now 83, got an answer in the form of a ruling opinion from the 2nd U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals. That court found, in her favor, that the Defense of Marriage Act violates the Constitution's equal protection clause and thus she shouldn't have had to pay an inheritance tax after her partner's death. This followsa similar ruling, in May, from another federal appeals court in Boston.


Federal appeals court strikes down Defense of Marriage Act


Neither opinion settles the matter for good. That is expected to happen next year when the Supreme Court will weigh the constitutionality of the Defense of Marriage Act through the prism of Windsor and Spyer's story. It is one of two cases related to same-sex marriage that the high court will consider, it announced Friday. The other addresses California's Proposition 8.


Even with those cases still to be decided, Windsor said earlier this fall -- when the lower court decided in her favor, three years after Spyer's death -- that she felt she could finally breathe and celebrate.


It was a day she relished, and one she didn't entirely expect after all her heartache.


"What I'm feeling is elated," Windsor said. "Did I ever think it could come to be, altogether? ... Not a chance in hell."


Instant chemistry in Greenwich Village


Born in Philadelphia in 1929, on the eve of the Great Depression, Windsor graduated from Temple University and earned a master's degree, in 1957, from New York University, according to a fall 2011 story in the latter school's alumni magazine.


She had come to New York hoping for a fresh start after a brief marriage, according to the report. And professionally, she found it -- working for NYU's math department and soon entering data into its UNIVAC, one of a few dozen of the huge commercial computers then in operation. Her knack for programming eventually helped her land a job, and to excel, at IBM.


But something was missing in her life, personally.


Or, as Windsor put it more succinctly, "I suddenly couldn't take it anymore."


In the documentary "Edie and Thea: A Very Long Engagement," she recalled pleading with an old friend to take her "where the lesbians go." And so Windsor spent one Friday night at Portofino, a restaurant in New York's Greenwich Village.


"Somebody brought Thea over and introduced her. And we ended up dancing," she recalled.


"And we immediately just fit," added Spyer, on the documentary.


Timeline: Same-sex marriage


After reuniting two years later, according to their New York Times' wedding announcement, their connection proved deep and lasting. In 1967, Spyer proposed marriage with a round diamond pin. A year later, they purchased a house together in Southampton, according to the NYU Alumni Magazine story.


Yet while the gay rights' movement took off after the 1969 Stonewall Riots, which occurred while Windsor and Spyer were vacationing in Italy, an actual marriage -- a legal union -- seemed out of the question.


Marriage, at last, and then heartache


Regardless, their love remained strong.


On the documentary, filmed around 2007, Spyer said, "Each one of us, in fact, looks different from how we looked when we met. But if I look at Edie now, she looks exactly the same to me. Exactly the same."


Windsor had halted her new career as a gay rights activist to help care for her partner, who suffered from multiple sclerosis. And it was after getting a "bad prognosis (that) I had another year to live and that was it" that Spyer proposed again.


"And I said yes," Windsor recalled. "She said, 'So do I.' "


Video shows Spyer being pushed through the airport in her wheelchair. It was from that seat -- on May 22, 2007, at Toronto's Sheraton Gateway Hotel -- that she gave her vows to make their marriage official in Canada.


"I, Thea Spyer, choose you, Edith Windsor, to be my lawful, wedded spouse," she said. "For richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part."


Having happily gone four decades without, Windsor soon realized how much the marriage meant to her. It made her and Spyer's love legitimate and all the more real.


"It's different because somewhere you're a hidden person, and suddenly you're a citizen of the world," she said in October.


But what happened as Spyer's condition worsened, and after her death, proved a stark reminder they were not legally united in their own country. And the fact that New York legalized same-sex marriage in 2011 didn't mean that Windsor, for example, would suddenly get back the hundreds of thousands of dollars in inheritance tax that she'd given to the government.


That could happen, however, if the Supreme Court upholds the appeals court ruling. That is Windsor's hope, as is that whether a committed couple is heterosexual or homosexual becomes irrelevant within the next decade.


In the meantime, Windsor said she's proud to fight for something bigger than herself and the legitimacy of her union with Spyer. She hopes, through her struggle, to help make it so gay teenagers can "fall in love knowing there's a future," that children of gay couples won't feel the need to explain their families, and that homophobia becomes a thing of the past.


"I feel like I'm representing them."


http://www.cnn.com/2012/10/18/us/new-york-doma-windsor 


Chin up!! Good news can brighten your day! - :-)

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Anybody can start a thread about anything. And lots of people care about this.

I disagree the country is going down the tubes. Life is good!!! :-)

Attacking a post again - Fair play?

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when I visit this Board all I ever see is whining from the conservative poster about being attacked, yet . . .

She wasn't attacking a post. She was just stating - her opinion on it.

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There is a difference you know.
The difference being if you are a liberal or a conservative? - la-te-da
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The conservative definitely whines more.
Take another look - liberals are getting (sm) - nm
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a little testy because it may be exposed that their emperor has no clothes. Now that's something I'd prefer not to think about. Gag me.
The only ones that care about this - are not the ones for
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"equal rights". This is about supporting gayness and nothing more. Abortion is wrong. Same sex anything is just plain wrong. should not be supported by anyone, government or individual, and definitely not having to be paid for in any way by the rest of the usa or the world in general. other countries put these types of deviants to death. might not be a bad example to follow! JMO. flame away, since you have nothing better to do! ha ha.
Actually, a real example of an opinion, not an attack - sm
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It may be wrong and ugly, but at least it is an opinion and you have a right to it. Before you just commented on the topic of the post. You should know the difference by now.
Lemme get this straight... "putting deviants to death" - Lucille 2
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may not be a bad example to follow? Is this a serious statement? If so, people should hope that one day they don't find themselves included on the list of things society deems deviant. I personally find it "deviant" to be totally absorbed with other people's sex lives. Looks like some folks would need to run and quick if I was writing the list.

*Disclaimer* I can't say what I'd really like to b/c we've learned from posts below that using you/your when discussing an expressed opinion is highly offensive and a valid reason for editing.
Support for the death penalty against homosexuals has - never been stronger
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in Mauritania, the tribal hinterlands of Northern Nigeria, Sudan, Eritrea, Djibouti, Yemen, Saudi Arabia, small ethnic pockets of coastal Somalia and, of course, (allegedly) nuclear Iran. I'm sure they'd welcome you with open arms and would just LOVE to lead you by example down the path of a virtually complete cultural transformation in order to assist you with a successful assimilation. Start packin', but a word of caution. Watch out for terrorists and animist tribal chiefs. If destined for Africa, do avoid Sub-Saharan tourism where in some select spots, 21st century cannablism has been reported. Bon voyage!
Great post. I hope it stays just as you wrote it! - nm
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"JMO. flame away, since you have nothing better to do! ha ha." - PERSONAL INSULT ALERT
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*biting my tongue* - Let it go, let it go, let it go.
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Sounds like you'd love the Taliban. - Beard patrol in the boudoir.
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They're big on putting people to death for who they love. I hear stoning is popular. An execution-style bullet would be more humane, but only some are lucky enough for that.

But you're probably anti-Muslim, too.
It's only natural to be put off my Muslim - women with beards.
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I know I am! B-r-r-r-r-r-r - Shuddering
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nice to know you prefer your women clean shaven - nm
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not really.... - I am anti anything that
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vocally despises the USA, hates anything that the USA stands for, comes to our country to declare jihad and physically wounds and kills our people by any means possible even if it means killing themselves, but consistently has their hands out for any monies or any benefits, be it weapons, vehicles, medical supplies....anything that the USA feels fit to offer them. I am not against any particular race, just the inconsistencies in what they say and do. I am anti-gay anything because the Bible says it is wrong. I am against abortion because murder is wrong. I am saying that in other countries there are "consequences" for opposing their beliefs and offenses against those beliefs. There should be consequences here, as well, but there has been too much leniency against what is wrong, and too much support from those that wish to do wrong, to the point of changing the direction of everything this country once stood for. JMO.
Right. Whatever. - Luckily, your views are
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becoming more and more irrelevant in this country. Like it or not, gay marriage is going to be more and more accepted. I hope it keeps up the momentum it's already gained.
In becoming more and more - irrelevant in this country
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is exactly the reason this country is quickly going down the tubes. People do not care about what is right and wrong anymore...they only care about getting their way, whatever that way entails, and getting it free, feeling entitled to everything and having everybody else pay for it. Evil is more and more accepted and I know who and what will put an end to it...the sooner the better.
People caring about what is right is exactly - what makes your views irrelevant.
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Who will put an end to it? - sm
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"...the sooner the better."

Pray tell, who will put "an end to it"? The N-R-A or G-O-D?

You're entitled to your opinion, but that's all it is: an opinion.

People are entitled to their own opinions, as well, even if they don't agree with yours.

When you say "end," are you hoping for another Civil War, or are you hoping that the world comes to an end so you can claim your exclusive place in heaven?

Please clarify instead of making veiled threats.
good questions. - nm
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The Flying Spaghetti Monster, Silly! - No moniker
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:-)
LOL! - nm
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calling for homosexuals to be put to death - vocally despises the USA...fyi
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Refer back to the Old Testament for discussion of "thou shalt not kill."
recall back to - sodom and ghomorrah.
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no message needed.
Geez, that's an awfully long time for a - country to be going
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down the tubes, dontcha think? I mean, the US wasn't even on the map yet. Sigh. We must have been doomed from the beginning.
This country once stood for slavery and lyinchings. Kind reminder: Our country has a Constitution - It is not the Bible nm
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the constitution was - based on the bible
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and its teachings. A slave can only be a slave as long as said allows himself to be.
what does the slave remark mean? - (for I am flabbergasted)
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Is that how you believe slavery ended? - sm
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That they all just stopped working one day and "allowed" themselves to be free?

Sheesh!
well sure... - sm
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if women who want birth control are sluts, slaves were definitely asking for it.
Well, if one can "pray away the gay," then - deciding not to be
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a slave sort of follows the same logic, maybe?
putting deviants to death - soup to nuts
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The countries that put these types of deviants to death are the same countries that would keep our daughters illiterate and marry them off at the age of 11 to abusive men.

These are the same countries that would stone you for walking on the street with a man, and would cut off your hands before you could even explain that you didn't touch your neighbor's goats.

These are the same countries who prefer to lob explosives at throngs of people rather than engage in legitimate discourse to resolve their problems.

If you think putting gays to death is the route to preserving "our way of life," you can keep it.
surely you jest - Effie
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However, if you really feel that anyone who fits "YOUR" definition of a deviant should be put to death then I just hope that God can forgive you for your hatred and meaness... I know I can't.
I will sleep better just knowing that.. - thank you.
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nobody asked for your forgiveness...you are not the one who matters. You are not the One I answer to.
??? - NK
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What about "Judge not lest ye be judged?" Isn't that in the bible somewhere?
I think you're allowed to pick and choose, like a kind of - moral menu
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i never said they should be put to death - i just said in other countries
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They (homosexuals) can be put to death. I know in the past according to the scriptures these participants in this type of activity were dealt with accordingly, judged by God, and lost their lives due to it. I am not being mean & hateful...just stating the consequences to this type of behavior. To be supportive of this type of behavior, should also be asking for forgiveness. I am not judging anyone but know how the participant/supporters fate is going to end up as well.
You wrote: "other countries put these types of deviants to death. might not be a bad example - to follow."
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Do you not even know what you wrote? Does the phrase "might not be a bad example to follow" mean something different to you than it does to the rest of us?
That's the kind of answer you'll get every time. - sm
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I asked one poster where she was from, and her answer was "another board."

totally agree - (unaccountable)
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I know what I wrote.... - and you misinterpret
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saying something like "might not be a bad example to follow" does not necessarily mean "all gays should be put to death." Maybe we should get a gay supporters board and you all can migrate over there. This has nothing to do with "politics." That also might not be a bad example to follow. :-P
unaccountable - nm
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gay board - effie
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Maybe you should start a board called "lETS HATE AND KILL EVERYBODY WHO DOESN'T THINK LIKE ME" and YOU can migrate over there and play with yourself.
I don't like playing with myself... - maybe you do.
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or you would not have mentioned it. :-P
Maybe you should start... it might make you happy and less angry at gay folks - Lucille 2
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Just a suggestion.
Love ya, Lucille 2... - Effie
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no message.. cause I can't believe someone wants to kill gay people just cause they are gay....and still trying to figure out how evil people live with themselves.
evil is as evil does - nm
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I wonder what God thinks of those who use the bible - Lucille 2
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to judge and shame others.

BTW... just because someone is gay, that doesn't render their relationship with God null and void. There are many, many gay Christians who I'm sure would be more than happy to teach the ways of love, understanding, and forgiveness to those who have forgotten. It's so much better for the soul than demonizing others.
you go, Lucille 2 - nm
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me too, Lucille - sm
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hopefully they will go fluck themselves.
they already are apparently - but...
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in the wrong orifice. lol. The Lord put an end to the debase once, He can and will do it again.
Final thought... - Lucille 2
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Sodom and Gommorah - yes...He does
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enough to protect the rest of the world.
Love ya, too, Lucille 2!!! - nm
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nah....wouldn't like them anyway - because the lord does not
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I believe in the word of God, and that is good enough for me. blghhhh. just cannot fathom, but whatever makes your tail spin.

I know what you mean. Country is going down - fast - who really cares about this? I don't.

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nm

What's the difference between that and civil unions? - Truthhurts

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According to the news, DE's same-sex marriage will not give them any more benefits or rights than what they have with civil unions. so why the push for same-sex marriage?

For the difference it would make under federal law, for one thing. - see paragraph 8

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Same-Sex Couples Welcome Delaware Gay Marriage Law


















DOVER, Del. (AP) — Mikki Snyder-Hall married her partner, Claire, in California in 2008, and moved two years ago to Rehoboth, a gay-friendly Delaware beach town.


Now they’re looking forward to July 1, when Delaware officially becomes the 11th state in the nation to allow same-sex marriage after Gov. Jack Markell signed a gay marriage bill into law Tuesday.


“As of July, we are considered married,” said Snyder-Hall said. The couple said that while they don’t intend to have another wedding ceremony, they may have another reception to celebrate their new legal status in Delaware.


Markell, a Democrat, signed the measure into law just minutes after its passage by the state Senate on Tuesday.


“I do not intend to make any of you wait one moment longer,” a smiling Markell told about 200 jubilant supporters who erupted in cheers and applause following the 12-9 Senate vote barely half an hour earlier.


(MOREHow Gay Marriage Won)


“Delaware should be, is and will be a welcoming place to live and love and to raise a family for all who call our great state home,” Markell said.


Delaware’s same-sex marriage bill was introduced in the Democratic-controlled legislature barely a year after the state began recognizing same-sex civil unions. The bill won passage two weeks ago in the state House on a 23-18 vote.


(paragraph 8 )  While it doesn’t give same-sex couples any more rights or benefits under Delaware law than they have in civil unions, supporters argued that same-sex couples deserve the dignity and respect of married couples. They also noted that if the U.S. Supreme Court strikes down the Defense of Marriage Act, which bars married gay couples from receiving federal benefits, civil unions would not provide protections or tax benefits under federal law to same-sex couples in Delaware.


“All couples under the law should be treated equally by their government,” Lisa Goodman, president of Equality Delaware, a gay rights group that drafted the legislation and led the effort to get it passed, told lawmakers near the end of Tuesday’s three-hour debate.


Under the bill, no new civil unions will be performed in Delaware after July 1, and existing civil unions will be converted to marriages over the next year. The legislation also states that same-sex unions established in other states will be treated the same as marriages under Delaware law.


Scott Forrest, 50, of Newark said he and his partner of almost 21 years, Kevin Fenimore, look forward to having the civil union they entered into last year converted to marriage.


“I am elated,” he said.


Lambda Legal, a national gay rights advocacy group, applauded passage of Delaware’s gay marriage bill.


“Today, we celebrate with the thousands of Delaware same-sex couples and their children who will soon be able to have the full recognition and respect accorded to married families,” Susan Sommer, director of constitutional litigation at Lambda Legal, said in a statement.


Tuesday’s debate included the first public acknowledgment by Sen. Karen Peterson, D-Stanton, that she is a lesbian. Saying she and her partner of 24 years entered into a civil union last year, Peterson rejected the notion that people choose to be gay, any more than they choose to be heterosexual.


“We are what God made us. We don’t need to be fixed, we’re not broken,” said Peterson, 63, adding that if her pursuit of happiness affects someone else’s marriage, perhaps they need to work on their marriage.


(INTERACTIVETimeline of the Gay Rights Movement in the U.S.)


But opponents of gay marriage, including scores of conservative religious leaders from across the state, argued that same-sex marriage redefines and destroys a centuries-old institution that is a building block of society.


“Let’s be careful about the concept of social evolution,” said the Rev. Leonard Klein, a Roman Catholic priest speaking on behalf of the bishop of the Catholic Diocese of Wilmington, which serves more than 200,000 Catholics in Delaware and Maryland’s Eastern Shore.


“When you remove male and female from the definition of marriage, all bets are off,” added Klein, who urged lawmakers to show an “appropriate humility” for thousands of years of human experience.


Opponents also argued that the gay marriage will bring unintended and unforeseen consequences on broader issues ranging from religious freedom to school curricula and could be used as a basis to argue for acceptance of even more forms of marriage, such as polygamy.


“We’re about to change the entire definition of marriage in order to make people feel good about themselves,” said the Rev. Chuck Betters, pastor of Glasgow Reformed Presbyterian Church in Bear. Betters recounted how he became the subject of scathing attacks in social media recently after posting a sign outside his church suggesting that Christianity was more powerful than the movement for gay marriage.


The new law does not force clerics to perform same-sex marriages that conflict with their religious beliefs. But under an existing Delaware law banning discrimination based on sexual orientation, business owners who refuse to provide marriage-related services to same-sex couples for reasons of conscience could be subject to discrimination claims.


Delaware joins neighboring Maryland and the nearby District of Columbia as jurisdictions that have approved gay marriage. Last week, Rhode Island became the 10th state to allow gay and lesbian couples to wed, with independent Gov. Lincoln Chafee signing the bill an hour after its final passage.


Minnesota appeared poised to legalize gay marriage after the Democratic speaker of the state House said Tuesday that a gay marriage bill endorsed by the governor and likely to pass in the state Senate also now has enough backing in his chamber. The House will vote on the measure Thursday, and if it passes, the Democratic-led Senate could vote on it as soon as Saturday.




Read more: http://swampland.time.com/2013/05/07/delaware-to-become-11th-state-with-gay-marriage/#ixzz2SigVvCK8

More about the differences between civil unions and marriage - under *federal* law.

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.... What are some of the differences between Civil Unions and Gay Marriage?


Recognition in other states: Even though each state has its own laws around marriage, if someone is married in one state and moves to another, their marriage is legally recognized. For example, Oregon marriage law applies to people 17 and over. In Washington state, the couple must be 18 to wed. However, Washington will recognize the marriage of two 17 year olds from Oregon who move there. This is not the case with Civil Unions and Domestic Partnerships. If someone has a Domestic Partnership, that union is recognized by some states and not others. Some states have even ruled that they do not have to recognize civil unions performed in other states, because their states have no such legal category. As gay marriages become legal in other states, this status may change. 


Immigration:


A United States citizen who is married can sponsor his or her non-American opposite-sex spouse for immigration into this country. Those with Civil Unions have no such privilege. Even legally married gay and lesbian couples cannot sponsor their spouses for immigration because of the Defense of Marriage (DOMA) law.


Taxes:


Civil Unions are not recognized by the federal government, so couples would not be able to file joint-tax returns or be eligible for tax breaks or protections the government affords to married couples. Again, because of DOMA, same-sex couples have to file single on their federal tax returns. 


Benefits:


The General Accounting Office in 1997 released a list of 1,049 benefits and protections available to heterosexual married couples. These benefits range from federal benefits, such as survivor benefits through Social Security, sick leave to care for ailing partner, tax breaks, veterans benefits and insurance breaks. They also include things like family discounts, obtaining family insurance through your employer, visiting your spouse in the hospital and making medical decisions if your partner is unable to. Civil Unions protect some of these rights, but not all of them. 


But can’t a lawyer set all this up for gay and lesbian couples?


No. A lawyer can set up some things like durable power of attorney, wills and medical power of attorney. There are several problems with this, however.


1. It costs thousands of dollars in legal fees. A simple marriage license, which usually costs under $100 would cover all the same rights and benefits.


2. Any of these can be challenged in court. As a matter of fact, more wills are challenged than not. In the case of wills, legal spouses always have more legal power than any other family member.


3. Marriage laws are universal. If someone’s husband or wife is injured in an accident, all you need to do is show up and say you’re his or her spouse. You will not be questioned. If you show up at the hospital with your legal paperwork, the employees may not know what to do with you. If you simply say, "He's my husband," you will immediately be taken to your spouse's side.  ... 


http://lesbianlife.about.com/cs/wedding/a/unionvmarriage.htm


 


How is a civil union different from marriage?


Couples who have a civil union will not have any of the protections or responsibilities federal law provides to married couples. These include social security survivors’ and spousal benefits, federal veterans’ spousal benefits, immigration rights associated with marriage, federal spousal employment benefits, the right to file joint federal tax returns, exemptions from income tax on your partner’s health benefits, the federal exemption from inheritance tax, and many other federal protections which are denied same-sex couples whether legally joined in a civil union or a civil marriage.


Also, most other states will not recognize the legal status of your civil union, even though they would recognize the Illinois marriage of a different-sex couple. This means that when you travel or if you move to another state or country, your union may not be recognized. As a result, you should considering taking certain precautions before you travel, such as executing health care and financial powers of attorney and carrying those with you.


Finally, the most important difference between civil unions and marriage for many individuals is the second-class nature of civil unions. Civil marriage is a widely recognized and respected social structure for two people who have committed to build their life together. Civil unions are not universally understood. It is unclear whether they will be given the same level of respect as marriage in Illinois and elsewhere. What is already clear is that different-sex couples get to choose whether to enter a civil marriage or a civil union; lesbian and gay male couples are given only the civil union option.


http://civilunions.aclu-il.org/?page_id=48


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