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Imagining the reaction to her "I know what it means to struggle" remark if Democrats acted like Republicans
Ann Romney (Credit: Reuters/Jeff Haynes)
Nicely played, GOP.
Mitt Romney’s “I know you are, but what am I?” strategy, declaring President Obama the real perpetrator of a “war on women,” got an assist from CNN Democratic analyst Hilary Rosen Wednesday, when she questioned whether Romney should use his wife, Ann, as his expert on women’s issues when she “never worked a day in her life.” As feminists have known thanks to the silly Mommy Wars over the last 20 years, every mother is a working mother. Rosen, who is herself a mom who also works outside the home, has now apologized, as has every prominent Democrat from President Obama to Debbie Wasserman Schultz to David Axelrod (and probably FDR, from the grave).
But Republicans still won’t shut up about it. An aggrieved Ann Romney even told Fox News, “I will tell you that Mitt said to me more times than I can imagine, Ann, your job is more important than mine,” and added that as the mother of five grown boys, “I know what it’s like to struggle.”
Well, I’d like to demand that Ann Romney apologize to all women for equating the “struggle” of a wealthy mother who had full-time household help to that of a poor or working-class job-holding mother, who must choose between her job and her children when a child gets sick. How dare you, madam? Have you no shame? I’d like to demand that Mitt Romney apologize for his wife’s remarks, too. I’d like to hear every prominent Republican denounce Ann Romney for her heinous insensitivity to non-wealthy mothers who must work outside the home.
Wait. Ann Romney’s not a Democrat, and I’m not a Republican, so that’s not how the world works. Sorry about that. I apologize.
No, Ann Romney doesn’t need to apologize – but in a grown-up world, Hilary Rosen wouldn’t have had to either. The point Rosen was making was, and is, valid: Mitt Romney repeatedly refers to his wife, Ann, in lordly terms, “reporting” to him what matters to women.Reporting to him, like she’s an employee, or maybe a translator. It’s valid to suggest that he ought to talk about what women believe from his own experiences, or what he learns from women colleagues, co-workers, campaign staff. He should stop referring to his wife’s “reports” about women’s issues, sounding like Thurston Howell III.
And the fact is, Ann Romney’s experiences are not the average woman’s. She is a woman of great privilege. Most mothers don’t have the “choice” to stay home full time with their kids; they need a paycheck. Meanwhile, her husband supports the Paul Ryan budget, which cuts nutrition programs for pregnant women and new moms and their kids. It cuts Medicaid for poor women and children. It slashes food stamp funding, when women and children make up two-thirds of the people who get food stamps. He wants to get rid of Planned Parenthood, which provides not just contraception but breast cancer and cervical cancer screenings for millions of low-income women.
In blasting the Obama campaign for the remarks of a Democrat unrelated to his campaign, Concerned Women for America called motherhood “the most important job there is.” Except when poor women do it, that is. Republicans crusaded to kill Aid to Families With Dependent Children (supported eventually by Bill Clinton and other Democrats) to make sure that poor women joined the workforce.
Motherhood is “the most important job there is” unless your children are poor. What a bunch of hypocrites.
I’m sure Ann Romney knows what it’s like to struggle. We all do; it’s the nature of being human. But in the political arena we really ought to be able to distinguish between personal struggles, and struggles that have social and political causes and implications. It reminded me of when Bill O’Reilly told Rev. Al Sharpton’s National Action Network, “I’m not black so I don’t know your struggle and you don’t know my struggle because you’re not white.” Nobody knows the troubles Bill’s seen, growing up on the mean streets of Old Westbury. I’m not saying that white people can’t face injustice, but to equate the black and white “struggles” is just ridiculous. Ann Romney is smart enough to distinguish between her own “struggles” and those of women who work at low-wage jobs and struggle to raise their children safely.
I debated the faux-controversy over Rosen’s remarks on “Hardball” today with Michael Steele:http://www.salon.com/2012/04/12/ann_...ize/singleton/
Democrats are Being Wusses: Ann Romney's "Struggles" are Out of Touch, Just Like Mitt
Hilary Rosen’s comments on Mitt Romney stating, “Guess what, his wife has actually never worked a day in her life,” have left Democrats on the defense. I can’t imagine why the truth puts them in such a defensive position, practically cowering in a corner, sucking their thumbs after yet another Republican deflection.
Mrs. Romney has never had to struggle as a stay at home Mom — her life is grand, relatively speaking. Let’s compare her life to a real working mother’s, for example, her housekeepers.
Huffington Post reports:
IRS forms released Tuesday by Mitt Romney’s presidential campaign show that despite reporting income of $21.7 million, the couple paid only $20,603 in taxable wages for household help in 2010. This figure was divided among four women: Rosania Costa ($4,808), Kelli Harrison ($8,667), Susan Moore ($2,238) and Valerie Cravens Anae ($4,890).
According to a number of Boston-based domestic staffing agencies, the salary range for a housekeeper is between $20 and $30 an hour, which adds up to an annual salary of $40,000 to $50,000 based on forty-hour weeks and two weeks of paid vacation a year.
The above is only surrounding one of the Romney’s three homes, one of which is undergoing renovations to double its size.
Mrs. Romney has two Cadillacs which she uses to bring her kids to school (hint: it’s not a school bus), that is, if she didn’t have them chauffeured daily, while her husband worked tirelessly laying off working mothers.
The poor thing must be worn out after hiring a slew of housekeepers and deciding which car elevator to have built in their new house — perhaps she works off the stress riding her dressage horse — don’t we all have one?
Ann Romney’s first tweet:
“I made a choice to stay home and raise five boys. “Believe me, it was hard work.”
Hilary Rosen was not belittling working mothers, but highlighting the fact that this out of touch couple cannot possibly fathom middle class struggles.
CBS reports, “I know what it’s like to struggle, and if maybe I haven’t struggled as much financially as some people have, I can tell you and promise you, that I’ve had struggles in my life,” she added.”
On Fox News Ann said, “My career choice was to be a mother. We need to respect choices that women make.”
So, now Ann Romney is pro-choice, just as her husband was years ago before he wasn’t?
Of course, women are not always afforded the choice Mrs. Romney made to stay at home and ride her dressage horse, hire nannies and housekeepers — and given their tax returns, it’s akin to borderline indentured servitude. I give kudos to Ann though for raising her kids at all of their homes. That’s not the point. The point is, some women have to work and if they don’t their kids will not eat. In this housing market, to even keep a roof over their heads is a task that would blow Ann Romney’s mind.
Ann will be fine in her struggles; her husband made over $21.7 million in 2010 and his estimated net worth is estimated at $250 million (although he’s avoided pinning the figure down) and that figure is highly dubious. It’s likely he’s worth far, far more.
The public was already well aware of what Ms. Rosen meant by her statement and it was appropriate. What we’re witnessing is pure deflection. The Romneys in no way, shape or form can comprehend the struggles so many parents have to endure. Quit apologizing.
Picking the target of Ann Romney would be (is) a huge mistake. Hilary made a big mistake and threw the GOP a softball. She's been around a long time, and I'm a little surprised she would slip like that. It must have a big deal for the Democrats, since it didn't take long at all for the POTUS, FLOTUS, Axelrod, DWS (I hate spelling her long name), and others to try and put the fire out. I'm glad they did. I hope the powers that be at the DNC use this as a "learning moment" and we can move on to other issues.
Candidate's families should be off limits. Just my opinion, though.
Mrs. Romney seems to me to be a very lovely woman who has battled so many obstacles and still came out shining. I'm guessing her 8 years as the First Lady will be divided into 2 causes, MS and breast cancer.