people who do things just to hurt you?

Posted: Jul 29, 2013

I have an aunt who is pure evil. She's been married and divorced, and now she's alone and bitter towards men and everyone. I'm happily married and so is everyone in my extended family. She tries to do things to hurt me (which work, I am upset and hurt right now), with no provocation. Before my mother died, my mother told me to "watch out for her" because when you're growing up, you don't see the evil in adults. I see it now. There are two young members of the family, both age 6, whom have birthdays in June. Last year, I inadvertently sent a text to my uncle saying I saw him on his motorcycle. He told me, that's impossible, I am at Jessie's birthday party. So I get upset, cry, send out texts to everyone who was at the birthday party asking them, why I wasn't informed? It hurt me deeply not to be included as I thought we had mended fences after my mother's death. I was told my aunt just forgot, she has a lot on her mind, and sorry. So, she invites everyone but me? In addition, we had a conversation two days earlier about their birthdays, so she didn't think to tell me she was having a party? I didn't buy it. (she had told everyone she had invited me ((lied)) so they assumed I just could not go). I wasn't invited again this year. I didn't get as upset because I don't think it's an accident. I went to another aunt's birthday party yesterday (at the evil aunt's house), and to rub it in my face, the evil aunt said to the 6 year old Jessie "these candles aren't as bad as yours at your birthday this year." Also, there was a birthday card for my uncle (who wasn't there) from the evil aunt sitting on display on a table. Why have a birthday card for someone else, from her, displayed on her countertop, someone who wasn't even there, nor whom she sees on a regular basis? (She didn't send me a birthday card this year, although I sent her one). She does these little subtle jabs just to hurt me. I think it thrills her. Right after my mother died, instead of being a loving aunt, she verbally attacked me for "not doing enough work" to help with the arrangements. My mother died of a drug overdose, and I went into a deep depression and she attacks me at the worst time. I'm an only child and had no idea what to do, on top of being emotionally gone. So I cut off family ties with them. We were supposed to be mending things last year, but nothing has changed. She's still a witch. There's much more, but I will leave it there. Anyone else have purely evil people in their life?;