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If you offered a computer to someone you were dating...(sm)


Posted: Jan 19, 2010

and they said no, because someone else was giving them one, then later you broke up (they broke up with you) and then a month later they asked if they could still have the computer (it is old, worth about $100), do you owe it to them? 

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You certainly don't OWE it to them, and they DID refuse once, but -- - SM

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-- personally, I think it would be a nice gesture if you gave it to them now after they've asked. If the original offer was made with no strings attached, why should it not stand now?

Tell them the offer is VOID.....BUG OFF!! - nm

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No, why should you after they broke up with you?..n/m - comp

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nm

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