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From the woman who had the 2 girls visit


Posted: Oct 20, 2013

I was reading the post on the Gab Board about the person asking how to get trust back in her partner. I was amazed to see that a person on here was guessing about "the one with the 2 girls for summer." Were you not ever told not to assume things? This is the person with the 2 girls for the summer, so you put it. The person writing about the trust issue is not me. I have no trust issues with anyone, certainly not my husband. I have no idea why coming on this board and asking the most simple of questions equates to you being a pervert or having someone say they would call the police on you if they knew for sure who you were. What is wrong with people now days? Some wanted to say I did not know the family, were they around, in prison, on drugs. Some here have a really good imagination. The father works, the mother works, their grandmother works and lives with the family. I know every last one of them. When they lived here I visited in their home, many a day jusst gabbing and enjoying my time with the entire family. I know their uncles, their cousins, their aunts. The children are like my grandchildren and there is not anything I would not do for them and their entire family. Having said this I flew down and got the girls this summer and we had a fabulous time, went to Florida for 12 days, went to Chattanooga, Tn for the aquarium along with my daughter, went to 4 waterparks, went swimming at our neighborhood pools, cooked out at my daughters, had their room fixed up perfectly, went to Six Flags, had close up meetings with animal groups at the various zoos we went to and they stayed for about 2 months. After flying them back to their home I then went on to Alaska and spent 10 days there. Oh, get this, for you people who want to run me down- I now have a trip planned to visit the family in December for 5 days. The girls have already told me their grandmother is going to fix something special for my being there for Christmas dinner. I had heard about school bullies but never knew they existed on these boards. The more I tried to explain my dealings with the family, the more people tried to put me down. I find it rather pathetic for people to try to slander me because of my feelings I have for this family. The mother said her family "adopted me" and I am so proud and so grateful to have people in my life that I really believe care for me. Everyone here would be so lucky to have this happen. ;

sanity has officially exited stage left - some people need a platform NM

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kooks-r-us?

good for you - whoop deee doooo

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nm

Why must you pick at that sore spot? - xx

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No one here knows who you are, and no one here has the power to affect your life. Why do you keep coming back to this topic?

Your original story was so poorly presented that it is no wonder people thought the whole thing was odd. It still seems odd that you must periodically keep bringing it up again and justifying yourself.

Nobody cares. Just let it go and get on with your life.

I came back to this topic because I find people - here who want to keep bringing it up

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I have not posted since before the girls came, left it alone but there have been numerous references to "the lady with 2 girls visiting for summer" and there was 1 earlier tonight, apparently trying to "guess" if that person was the same one as me. All have been wrong and I had left it alone. As far as getting on with my life, do you for one minute think I have sit here for all this length of time before getting on with my life? Stupido.

I agree with you. - anon

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Yes, that or those person/persons repeatedly bring it up. I've seen it, and have reported it to the moderator more than once for harassment. Just realize they look bad, not you.

It sounds like you had a wonderful summer, and you have every right to bring it up, talk about it, ask advice, and "gab" about it. Yes, people, this is a GAB BOARD.

I personally think those who can't control themselves and feel the overwhelming need to post mean, snide, or condescending comments in regards to people they do not know and have never met are quite sad.

Me too - anon

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There is some sort of weird obsession some people have with your circumstances.

I've always thought it's nice what you do for that family and that it's great they've "adopted" you too. Keep on keeping on!

Well bless your heart. - xx

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Did calling me stupid make you feel better?
she did not call you - stupid
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but it is interesting that you took it as a personal insult. HA! She said that it would be stupid of her to sit here all this time without moving on in her life. So, did attacking HER make YOU feel better???
No, she called her stupid - sm
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That is the meaning of "stupido." Who is stupid depends on what precedes it. She could not have been calling herself stupid because she described herself doing something she felt was smart, i.e., getting on with her life. The stupido in this case is the person who thought she just sat there.

As used in that post, it means "What a bunch of idiots."
having mentioned her in a post does not equate - to slander either
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Actually, given the age of the "woman with the 2 girls for the summer," I would expect her to be able to shrug it off and "move on" with her life, without a need to respond to "stupido" posts.

But hey, since she brought it up, "stupido" is as......
If people had an ounce of sense and read the - thread below, I was NOT
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the one who brought it up. Some person who did not "move on" assumed (wrongly) the person with the trust issue sounded like "the woman with the 2 girls for the summer." I had not posted 1 single time since shortly BEFORE the girls came, that being June and now here almost Christmas. Almost on a monthly basis since then I personally have read references to "the woman with the 2 girls" and this was just the latest below with the trust issue. As far as talking about age, I thank the good Lord above I was born and grew up in an age when we actually never and I mean never bullied other people. I had heard about bullying in school but grown women doing it? You could only wish when you get my age that a) you are still getting about without using a wheelchair or a cane without major health issues, b) that you still enjoy life to the fullest and are able to go and do whatever your little heart desires due to not having to work 24/7, c) no money problems, d) home almost paid for lacking about $50,000, d) and most of all the love of those "2 little girls" and their family that tops most things I know in life. So many women on here sound really bitter and you seem to fit that comment. Don't be a hater.
whoop deeee dooo - just give it up already
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And now we know - sm
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I get the feeling that you're pretty jealous of the woman's situation, which is why you continue to pick at it with snide commentary.

Furthermore, she has every right to defend herself from unfounded accusations, especially in a post that she didn't even start.

I'd like to see someone pull the same kind of crap on you and see how you like it.
It happened several months ago - She needs to let it go
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There is no point in bringing up something several months later and going on and on and on about it. It's getting really old. There comes a time in ones life that one must learn to just let it go. Just let it go. Breathe in, breathe out.. I guess she's not there yet. Blahhhhh blahhhhhh blahhhhhhhhhhhh
Then stop bringing it up. - Duh
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Do you not realize the fact that she didn't bring herself into the conversation? Someone else (probably you, come to think of it) did. You all need to let it go, not her. Geez, you must have rocks in your head.
yeah she did..she started an entirely new post about - what happened several months ago
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blahh blahhhh blahhhhhh
To Defend Herself. - OMG, just go away.
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What are you, 12?
No I'm not 12, are you? Why don't you just go away - nm
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blahhhhhhh
Then don't read them - if it upsets you so much
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you are "bringing it up" just as much as she is. Maybe she will let it go when you do! Just do not read her posts. It seems that you just have the NEED to respond to them every time she says something. golly ms. molly!
well said!!! - nm
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nm
I had not posted 1 single time since shortly BEFORE the girls came - someone is being windy
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I don't know how you expect anyone to believe that. I sure don't. The rest of what you say is just blahhhh blahhhhh blahhhhhhhhh
Nesicence rules here with blah, blah - so with someone like that
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you just let them be. They don't get it and never will. The lady with the girls did not post for several months but she has been mentioned here several times. You can hardly blame her for speaking back up and clearing the air so to speak. People believe what they want to and apparently this blah, blah person does and it is her right to want to not believe.
So show us the part where she posted - Kendra
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after June before now. Once a hater always a hater.
give it a rest, yourself - what do you care anyway?
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you are the one who keeps bringing it up and keeping it going. leave her alone!!! lights on, but nobody's home! hello!!!

Dont worry about anonymous people - on an anonymous board

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you don't owe anyone an explanation. There are some rabid folks on these boards. Wouldn't do it if they had to give their name. Sounds like you had a wonderful summer. Don't sweat the cyberbullies

I remember your post. Thought you were very kind - for what you were doing.

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Glad you had a fabulous time.

P.S. - Will you adopt me :-)

Your post was so sweet but you would probably - have to get in line

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I have had so many people including my DIL's cousins, my daughter's friends, daughter's boss even to ask me the same thing, will you adopt me? I worked back in the days when we made good money and have taken my children on really nice trips and my daughter even the other night (at 41 now) told me how much she appreciated what I did. I so much thank the people who came here in support. There was not much of that before.

Well I didn't want you to adopt me to take me on trips - LOL

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I just meant it figuratively as you are a nice person with a good heart. Not many of them anymore. You sound like you have the same values my family raised me on. I'd bet we'd be great friends sitting down to a cup of coffee and piece of pie just talking things over.

Traveled enough in my lifetime. Done with that. Was in the service and traveled all over Europe, marrying in Denmark and seeing where my grandfather served when he was in WWII. That was fascinating. Now I'm happy to be where I'm at.

Besides, at 53 think I'm too old to be adopted. :-)

Still glad you had a great time. Bet Alaska was fabulous.
My second trip there. I love animals and that - is where you should find but
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they were really hidden this time. I saw out in the opening only 1 bear and 1 moose. The first time I went saw loads of bald eagles, bear, tons of moose and this time mostly mosquitos. You are too young to stop traveling. I think of places I haven't been and yet do not think I will make it. Africa for one place but you know all the illnesses you could pick up there and I am not into malaria for the rest of my life. WWII history is fascinating for me, love to hear any and all about that period of time. Thanks again.

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