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Posted: Jul 9, 2011

My best friend's son is getting married.  We have been friends for 30 yrs and he is my godson.  How much money would you give them for a wedding gift? 

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Wedding Gift - JC

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That depends on how close you are with them and your own personal affordable means. Personally, I like to give between $50 and $100, depending on how close I am to the person, whether it's a family member or a friend.

wedding gift - just my 2 cents

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I think it depends on what state you live in, where the wedding is going to be and how much you could afford. My daughter just got married and the money gifts ranged from $25.00 to $500.00 per couple. No she did not expect that generous of gifts but her fiance's side of the family is a lot wealthir than our side of the family. Like the previous poster said how well do you know him and it all depends on what you want to do. I have had three nephrews get married this year and gave them each $200.00 (from my husband and me) and the venues all were different in price.

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