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This is such a hard question to ask but you guys seem to give great advice and I need some direction. I have been married for 21 years with 4 kids but I am finding that I have changed so much and although I love my husband I am not in love with him and I would much prefer to just be left alone. He can be verbally abusive even though if I ever said that he would never believe it. He does not see what others see. I have reached a point where I just don't want to take the crap anymore. I think I deserve to be treated much better and I could do just fine on my own. Unfortunately, he has a pretty prominent job in the community so this could get pretty ugly. My family has seen the real way he treats me and my friends have seen it recently. They say I don't deserve it and I know it but how do you leave with kids involved? It would be such a shock for me to come out with this because as far as he is concerned, everything is just fine. I, however, am miserable. Two of the kids are in college and I know that when I am left with just me and him I will not be able to stand it for the rest of my life. Anybody been here? Oh, I have in the past asked for family counseling and he says we don't need it so that is not an option. That was about a year ago. I now would not even want the counseling. I just want out.
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