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My son deployed a few months ago. His wife and my grandson live a few hours away. She is always in some crisis or another, complaining about how she can't handle their child. He is 3... She works full time, makes time for the gym and "girls time" with her friends and he is in day care 8 - 10 hours a day! How hard can it possibly be for her! Seems like all she needs to do is cook him dinner and put him to bed! I figure if she can make she she's always dressed to the 9 and looking good, she just needs to take some her her personal time and put it into taking care of the baby.
So, she complains a lot to my son (like a person overseas dealing with the war needs to hear whining). She calls me up to come and help, like it's just a drive around the corner, to come and help. I have, of course. He's a typical toddler, a handful, but he's not a horrible child like she makes him out to be! I finally suggested counseling for dealing with separation (for her...) and that didn't go over well. She said she really needed a break and asked my husband and I if we'd take him for a week or two. Of course we did.
This has become routine. We get him for a week and a half out of the month. She wants us to keep him while she goes on vacation now. I just don't know what to think about that woman... Actually I do know what to think, I just don't know how I'm suppose say anymore.
My son is Mr. Mom. This child is devastated that he is gone and he clings to her for support and reassurance and her responses are usually something along the lines of "oh my god will you stop fussing! I just got home from work" and turns on the TV and gives him a piece of candy. I can't wait for my son to come home, but it's going to be a few months still.
Then I guess we go on pretending she's that loving mommy... I'm so sad for this sweet baby.
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