A community of 30,000 US Transcriptionist serving Medical Transcription Industry

Changing clothes in school for a trip

Posted: May 25, 2010

Does this seem a little off to you? On Monday the class made tye-dye shirts, which are supposed to be worn on Friday for a field trip. Okay. Fine. Now we, the parents, are being told that the shirts will not be sent home prior to the trip and the children will be required to change shirts in school prior to leaving for the trip. Why? Why on earth won't they send the shirts home Thursday? I have a little girl and I am very uncomfortable with the fact she is being forced to change clothes in school. We aren't being told if they are to change in private or infront of teachers/other students, nothing. I just get a bad feeling about this. I'm considering keeping my daughter home from school the day of the trip. What do you all think?

;

I think you should talk to the teacher rather than assume the worst and worry for no reason. - nm

[ In Reply To ..]
nm

Control issue - Happy MT Robin

[ In Reply To ..]
I have a feeling they want the kids to change at school because they've had too many issues where the shirts were sent home and then the kids didn't wear them for the school trip. That's just my guess, though.

Like the other responder said, though, call the teacher and talk over your concerns with him or her.

my guess - is that the shirts

[ In Reply To ..]
are being dried and possibly even washed by the teacher as a courtesy to you. Knowing that some parents would inevitably forget to wash the shirt and dress the child in it for the day, the teacher probably thought it would be easier this way.

I also think they want to make sure that all the kids are dressed in the shirts so that they can be easily identified as part of the class. That is a good thing.

I can understand your concern, but I really don't think you have anything to be worried about. I'm sure they will send the girls to the girls' bathroom and the boys to the boys' bathroom.

I definitely would not make her miss her trip over it. Field trips are a big deal to kids. I know my daughters would never forgive me if they missed one.

Can't they just put the shirts OVER whatever - they are already wearing?

[ In Reply To ..]
nm

wear a tank under shirt, when she changes can keep the tank on under tshirt. - nm

[ In Reply To ..]
nm

If you know what is on the T-Shirt and exactly where they are going, sounds like it should - be harmless

[ In Reply To ..]

Were you told before they made the T-Shirts or has your daughter told you WHAT is on the T-Shirts? Is there anything else besides the tye-dye on the shirt? Do you know where the field trip is to? Anything controversial about the destination?

You did not mention what grade your daughter is in. Does she already have to change for gym or other “exercise” classes (I do not have grade-school age children anymore and school systems have changed so much recently, I am not even sure if they have gym class anymore)? If they already change clothes in school for whatever reason, I am sure they will take proper steps to ensure privacy and decorum.

I do not want to start any “conspiracy” theories here, but the West Coast is famous for trying to make political statements using our children. This has become a hot topic with the new Arizona Immigration Law. Cities and States banning students from traveling to Arizona for scheduled tournaments, etc. They banned the students from selling T-shirts at one Wisconsin school because of the controversy (article link below).

Like I said, I am not trying to start any conspiracy, but I would definitely want to know what is on the T-Shirt and where they are going. If that satisfies you, then I am sure everything will be fine and totally harmless.

Let us know what you find out. Maybe Fox News would be interested if there is a possible controversy there. LOL

http://www.channel3000.com/education/23665098/detail.html

Tye-dye shirts - changing in school - West Coast MT

[ In Reply To ..]
My daugher is only in second grade -- no they don't change for gym class. Also, there wasn't an option for wearing a second shirt underneath and it is supposed to be 90 degrees the day of the trip. They are only going to another elementary school to meet penpals. I don't know of the other adults who will be going on the trip to help out, but some are very questionable. I don't want my child changing in front of some of these parents or other students for that matter. One I know of has a criminal record! How they are even allow to go along is beyond me. I wanted to go myself, so I knew what was going on, but was told they have enough people already. We've had trouble with teachers and bullys at this school in the past. They take responsibility for nothing. My daughter ended up with physical injuries they said it was unfortunate end of story. Nothing was done to the boy who "damaged her." He's still at large being the bully he is. Meanwhile I have to jump through hoops and BS to keep him away from my child, the innocent little girl who just wants to learn. She really doesn't even want to go. She is afraid they will be forced to change in front of the strangers-- her words, not mine. We don't live in the West Coast any longer -- just my screen name. Haven't changed it yet. No issues with words on shirts. Just the school being totally idiotic, as usual. I know the seniors had to change clothes on a school bus for a trip -- no lie. I have a senior as well. We didn't let her attend school that day either. The girls were to be on one bus and the boys on another, but still . . . changing clothes on a bus???

If you have that big a problem with fearing for - t

[ In Reply To ..]
her safety, etc., then I would seriously consider changing schools. If you are uncomfortable with the person with the "criminal record," I would definitely discuss this with the school authorities. Do you know what the criminal record is?? If it had anything at all pertaining to childern, this person would not be accompanying them as a chaperone for a school trip. I would definitely be looking for another school however.

P.S. If your daughter was physically attacked - t

[ In Reply To ..]
or hurt in any way, file charges against the bully. In most states/school systems bullying is totally illegal and the kid should be suspended or expelled from school.

I went on a band trip in high school - ~~~

[ In Reply To ..]
to an amusement park. We marched in the parade when we first got there and then changed out of our uniforms into regular clothes on the bus so we go in the park. Girls on one bus, guys on the other. I don't get what the big deal is.

I had to do this too - what is the big deal

[ In Reply To ..]
nm

If your school is truly that awful start making some noise - sm -

[ In Reply To ..]
report them to a local newspaper, the board of education, the police for the assault. Every school has some bad kids, cannot avoid that unless you live in a bubble or utopia. A kid that doesn't want to go on a field trip is a bit strange though, maybe you are transferring some of your fears onto the child? As for the criminal record, unless they are a child molester or were convicted of assault, drugs, rape or murder, I would not worry about it. In theory, unless a sex offender, they have paid their debt to society and should at least be treated cordially. --We just recently had an issue with a kid harassing my 10-y/o with sexual comments and gestures. It was acted on immediately. The kid is in deep doo doo now at school and with his dad. I do work very PT for the school too, but I do not believe my being a county employee had any bearing on how it was handled. Our schools here take bullying in any form very seriously and it is not tolerated at all. If you want things to change then you need to either (1) take you daughter out of there and enroll her elsewhere, or (2) be proactive, form a non-bullying association, (3) get talking with the local news, board of education, local delegates, raise a stink. --- There is creadence to the expression the squeaky wheel gets the grease.

I think it's fine. I wouldn't worry too much about it. - Kendra

[ In Reply To ..]
Just my opinion, though.

in this day and age, they won't have them change in front of everyone else - sssdt

[ In Reply To ..]
I worked at schools for a few years back in the 1990s, and trust me, everyone was very very careful about even appearing to be inappropriate. If you're really worried, call to ask.

They probably won't send the shirts home because kids will forget to bring them back for the trip.

I think you are freaking out over nothing. Instead of spending time on this board and threatening to keep your daughter from a fun field trip, call the teacher or the school secretary and go from there.

Good grief. They will not be changing in front - jk

[ In Reply To ..]
of the entire class. Use a little common sense. The teacher will probably take them to the bathroom and have them change. I can see not sending the shirts home, if the kids are little/young, then they might not make it home with them on the bus.

Shirts for field trips - Silly Girl

[ In Reply To ..]
Our classes (elementary) each have a "class t-shirt". A different color for each teacher's class. I can understand where they are coming from. There is ALWAYS 2-3 kids who show up without their class shirt on for the field trip for whatever reason that may be. This is your school's way of making sure all the kids are dressed alike and stand out from "common people" or other school kids who may be having the same field trip. I really wouldn't worry about it.

I think you are over reacting. They are not idiots - sm -

[ In Reply To ..]
at schools. They will probably have the girls change in the bathroom and the boys in the boy's bathroom or the classroom. The sexes will be separated for this procedure which should take all of two minutes. They are not sending the shirts home as they know from experience some kid will come in without their shirt, plain and simple. If you are so uncomfortable with it, drive to school that day, take your daughter to the bathroom yourself and have her change her shirt. Or tell her to put it on over the shirt you have her wear that day. It really is not that big a deal. What are you gonna do when she has to change clothes for gym? You really need to chill, we are talking a T-shirt not a full body change of clothes.

Similar Messages:

Jan 26, 2012
McDonald's find more profits! Go corporations! http://fox6now.com/2012/01/19/take-part-in-mcteachers-nights-january-23rd-february-23rd/ ...

Jul 03, 2014
Hey, Michelle, you were elected by NO ONE. Stay out of our schools. HA!! link ...

Dec 14, 2012
Details are sketchy but the gunman is dead. They haven't pieced the whole thing together yet, so keep informed. Some news items are saying multiple deaths, others 1 death, and still others just a teacher or principal were dead. ...

Apr 07, 2014
I need suggestions on clothes brands - I hate shopping and when I do, I like to get in, try on and get out. I am 60 years old..... I am 5 feet 9 inches tall, 160 pounds - anybody have a suggestion for a line of clothes that fits decent? Most tops are too short so that when I bend over, my back sticks out. I need a 34 inch inseam on pants, so most "outfits" don't work because the pants are too short. I like classic clothes, bright colors - kind of ...

Oct 06, 2014
Keep your rabbit food, Mooch, our kids don't want it. Link ...

Dec 23, 2009
Looking for gently used American Girl things to buy. Any ideas? Craigslist was an expensive dead-end and E-Bay almost as expensive as new. Thanks! ...

Jan 22, 2017
to acknowledge what they can see with their own eyes. What difference does it make if he didn't have the biggest crowd? Talk about snowflakes! ...

Oct 14, 2009
Trying to get some things together for Christmas for family whose little girls want American Girl things but can't afford new. E-bay is just as expensive. Any ideas? ...

Nov 16, 2009
Chinese netizens welcome Obama's visit with thousands of questions www.chinaview.cn 2009-11-13 23:04:27 BEIJING, Nov.13 (Xinhua) -- Chinese netizens have prepared thousands of questions for US President Barack Obama during his Nov. 15-18 visit to China, covering a wide range of topics from Sino-U.S. relations to U.S. first lady Michelle Obama. &n ...

Jul 06, 2013
Started collecting American Girl things a few years ago but want to add to my collection. I'm reliving my childhood when I did not have many dolls. Anyway if anyone wants to sell authentic American Girl items, let me know. Thanks! ...

Nov 18, 2016
I don't think we'll see Melania coming out with a black widow dress or a chicken feathers gown any time soon. Oh, darn. Poor thing. What ever will she do? LOL ...

Sep 11, 2011
I am planning a day trip to NYC on Saturday, Nov 5th. I have been to NYC many times, mainly with my girlfriends to shop and eat. This year, I would like to take my family, which includes my husband and 3 sons - ages 9 through 14. I'm looking for suggestions as to what to do and see, as I know they would not enjoy shopping the entire day. I had hoped to see the Rockettes, but their show doesn't start until the following Saturday and there's no way to resche ...

Jul 12, 2012
I will be turning 60 in July 2013 and I am taking myself on a trip somewhere for about 10 days. Anyone have any suggestions? I do not want to go back to Hawaii or anywhere in Europe. I have a doggie day care at my home so I will have up to $8000 earmarked for a good time. I do not care for hiking or museums or mountains. I do like the water and have been on a cruise in the past. Thought about AmTrack trip somewhere. Suggestions? Anything you have ...

Mar 24, 2010
I had my eyes opened today when I looked at the web page of the newspaper "Pravda." Does anyone recall Pravda? This is downright frightening. ...

Nov 02, 2011
Has anyone else had a mom or dad get remarried and change DRASTICALLY. My mom got remarried several months ago. She is DIFFERENT. Her friends have said they noticed a big change. I definitely have. She used to be a regular church goer. She stopped that. He doesn't go so I guess that's why. She used to cook Sunday dinner every week. She no longer cooks for her kids anymore. That used to be important to her to cook for her kids once a week, even if told not to bother. She stop ...

Sep 17, 2012
Has anyone experienced this with their mom? She remarried a year and a half ago, and she is a different person. She quit going to church, she dyed her hair, lost weight, doesn't want friends just him, tans now, acts younger. He is a greedy, stingy person and now she is too and she was NEVER stingy. She acts like she is better than other people now. She gets an attitude when she was never like that especially with me. She is basically someone I don't ...

Jun 14, 2013
nm ...

Aug 01, 2014
Mind you, they are 22 and 25. They are driving from upstate NY to Long Island to stay with friends and see a concert. Now, each of them has been gone on their own, my son's been to the other end of the country on both a plane and train. I think my problem with this trip is that they're together in his car. I have these visions of a crash and losing both of them at the same time. I know - silly, right? Yes, I know it. But a mom worries. ...

Feb 28, 2012
Recently there was a poster here celebrating her new position as a dispatcher for her state police. That particularly got my attention because she is making $36K per year plus benefits AND a former coworker of mine (MT) left to go to work for our sheriff's office doing the same thing. I have been looking online for dispatcher jobs, and here are some of my thoughts: Doing 911/EMS stuff is not my cuppa tea. WAY too stressful! I would think that sheriff's office and/or stat ...

Nov 05, 2012
Interesting article on how America is changing and what that could mean for the GOP. ...

Aug 29, 2014
Hmmm... ...

May 12, 2017
watching the Senate intelligence committee hearings Thursday morning, I got so frustrated I started looking for a good cartoon show. What's so aggravating about these staged Congressional hearings is that you know what the Republicans and the Democrats are going to say before you even turn on the TV. If it's healthcare reform, the right side says it's going to replace Obamacare with something that works - but then they can't sell their conservative ideas to the public a ...

Apr 09, 2013
It was their 5th wedding anniversary and they went to Cuba, which is against the law; but, of course, they got away with breaking the law. According to the Treasury Dept. spokesperson, they were on a "cultural exchange." Getting away with breaking the law by friends or family of our esteemed President again and again seems to be a habit. How much more is this administration going to thumb their noses at, and/or break the laws of, our country? ...

Sep 05, 2014
Will start October 24 - November 2nd. Will be staying a the Sheraton Crown Center. Any suggestions on what to do for entertainment while there? Any must go to restaurants? ...

Apr 20, 2015
leave my house key with her just in case. I have animals here at home and my husband is home like every other day as far as the watering and feeding things. She and I basically share "her" cat. She lets him be an inside/outside wanderer and he comes to my house and gets treats. I have talked with her occasionally over the years, never visited in her home, she has been in mine once. She is a part-time RN in NICU here at one of our close by hospitals so pretty responsible. I would love to be a ...

Jul 02, 2012
My daughter's doctor started a concierge practice, where he will see only certain patients who agree to pay thousands of dollars up front. She lives in Colorado. Friends of mine from Pennsylvania said their doctor is doing the same thing. Has anyone heard of any other physicians doing the same thing? ...

Oct 14, 2013
link ...

Dec 20, 2013
and no one stops him? I don't understand. Someone explain please ...

Mar 04, 2014
We can only hope people see through this. Heaven knows they've had enough time. They can't all be stupid - can they? ...

Nov 08, 2010
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-503544_162-20021841-503544.html Earlier this week, the Press Trust of India reported that the United States will "be spending a whopping $200 million per day on President Barack Obama's visit" to Mumbai. The story lacked a named source, and the $200 million claim was credited to "a top official of the Maharashtra Government privy to the arrangements for the high-profile visit." The claim quickly gained traction on the right, thanks in part to a lin ...