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sorta OCD kid, chapped hands


Posted: Apr 29, 2013

Hey friends, I have a slightly worrisome growing dilemma.  My 14yo son has always been somewhat over-zealous about hand washing, but of late it has become quite a problem.  I remember telling my friends about this a couple of years ago, but now the repercussions have become severe.  He washes his hands wayyyy too often.  Just in the time after school and before bed it's at least 12 to 15 times, with more during the day at school.  I try to buy him moisturizing hand soaps, but now the chapping is so severe that the backs of his hands are cracking and bloody all the way to his wrists.  I've tried many lotions to try to moisten his skin, and what seems to be working the best currently is Yes to Carrots.  I have him sleep with these moisturizing gloves on to hold in the lotion, but I can't seem to ever make it completely better.

Should I talk to his pediatrician about his seeming "germ phobia?"  Of course, I have talked to him very, very often about this not being quite so necessary, but we seem to be at loggerheads about this.  About 6 months ago, he built a computer, and now it has gotten quite worse.  He insists he doesn't want his computer getting dirty, but I think this goes way deeper than that.  Just now, I stopped him from taking the trash out and I did it myself because I knew that he immediately would come back in the house and scrub his hands.  He won't pet the dogs or the cats either, might get his hands dirty.

Any advice would be appreciated....thanks so much.

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I would seek professional help. I think the pediatrician--sm - anon

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would be the gateway to helping you find the right professional. It could be a psychiatrist or it could be an occupational therapist or behavioral specialist who may have the key. I have an autistic son and he had a very hard time with the texture of lotion but now can tolerate it. There was a time when his hands were cracked and bleeding so I can relate. Good luck to you. Parenting is not for wimps.

Needs to be addressed - see msg

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Something is going on in this kid's life that has him waaayyy stressed. Not meaning to diagnosis him, but certainly sounds OCD-ish.

He cannot be logic-ed into not washing his hands. Washing his hands is somehow a comfort to him when disturbing thoughts/feelings arise in him.

Only you know what stressors have been lurking in the home for several years, so alleviating some of those would certainly help. I have heard that cognitive therapy is helpful in OCD-type situations, but he would first need an assessment by a psychiatrist-type who specializes in this sort of thing. The pediatrician may be able to recommend someone.

Pediatrician - Needs to know

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The pediatrician needs to know, and probably should have been told a while back so he/she could track the progression of what ever is going on with your boy's anxiety level. It's part of some very important history.

The chapped hands certainly are an issue, but the other needs to be seriously looked into. The severely chapped hands are a symptom of over-washing, the over-washing is a symptom of something else going on, so it's all part of his medical history.

Good luck.

Therapy and something like Aquaphor - but definitely therapy

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You need to find a therapist that works with OCD cases. Regular therapy and possibly medication, but therapy definitely.

As for the chapping, try something like Aquaphor or Bag Balm (which is stinky but fabulous) or even plain old vaseline. Vaseline adds a little bit of moisture, but it's better at holding the existing moisture in.

I know I'm not on the scale of your son, but I use Aquaphor on my heels that could be used as sandpaper in the summer and it makes a huge difference.

I gotta ask - Are you...

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...more worried about the chapped hands than the poor kid's mental and emotional anguish? If that was my kid, I would have had his "over-zealous" hand washing addressed when you first noticed it. The kid is seriously distressed and this needs to be addressed ASAP.

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