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I'm wondering if

Posted: Jul 14, 2015

anyone has had someone in their lives that they can't get rid of. Is it still permissible to exclude some people from your life? Does the individual have this choice in the USA? If someone has been "following" you for a lifetime, is there anything you can do?

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I am also wondering if - cherylsue

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it is possible to find out if you have a criminal record. Can you go to a law enforcement agency to find this out? Is this something that should be available to you or is it hidden?

Criminal record is public record - sm

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A fee is charged for the printout, but it's something the public can access for the cost of $5 to $25 depending on where you are.

Thank you for your response! - cherylsue

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Can you tell me where I can go for this info? A court? Which one? An atty? T

Where I live, in a southern state, one just goes to the clerk of court - sm

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The clerk of court here is housed right in the courthouse.

I got all my info. on a Florida-based criminal - history website. Various searches

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yielded everything I needed to get a full printout on his criminal history: Former addresses, ex-wives, relatives, phone numbers, and best of all - SS#. THAT was the golden key.

Worth the money! I got one on an apartment - complex neighbor who had - sm

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been harassing me and vandalizing the front of my apartment for years. He finally got evicted, but not before egging my car and ruining the paint on it. I got his rap sheet, and it was a LONG one. He was trying to move into the building next door, so he could keep on harassing me. I made sure every apt. manager within a 10-mile radius got a copy of his rap sheet. End of problem.

Sounds like recent post about people - getting information about you, following, etc.

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Are you the same person who posted below? This sounds like a few others stated, maybe a little paranoid. Why would any person want to follow someone else for a lifetime? This makes no sense.

I'm not the OP below but - cherylsue

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I have a similar problem.

I know it doesn't make sense but it is true.

I'm not too familiar with courthouses. I live in a large city. Guess the best thing to do is go in and see what I can find out.

If someone is harassing you get a - sm - XXX

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restraining order, problem solved. Ask about how you would go about that, if this person following you violates it then they get a free trip to jail.

I have to disagree about restraining orders. sm - anon4this

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In my case (domestic violence) it was MORE dangerous for me to have a restraining order than to not have one. It tends to send the abusing party on tilt. The same can be said of a stalker.

I tried to get a restraining order on my apt. - bully neighbor. In order to - sm

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get one however, the police application had to be signed by the property owner/manager, who didn't want to get involved. Since I wasn't the owner of the property I lived on, the police wouldn't do anything. That's when I did my own research and took care of the matter myself. In my case, making it impossible for the person to live anywhere in practically the entire county did the trick. Due to lack of proximity, he lost interest in bothering me.

Thanks for your responses - cherylsue

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It's an unusual and difficult problem although not as unusual as I had thought in the past.

Of course, you do not have to have contact.SM - Old Anon

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with someone you don't want in your life. Is this person following you on Facebook or emailing you? If so, unfriend them and block their emails and don't answer their phone calls (get caller ID on your phone). Are they just curious about how you are doing or are they doing or saying unpleasant things to you? In the latter case, it's best to just block them and also tell them one time only that you want NO contact. It is really simple, so do not let them get into your head and forget about them. If they are also physically following you, you need to file a police report at the police station. Keep a log of the unwanted contact, dates, times, locations, etc., with you; also the name, address, phone number, and email address of the person if you have those. Also, how would you not know if you have a criminal records? If you were arrested, tried, and convicted, served jail time and/or paid a fine, you would absolutely know this. Is this person telling you that you have a record? If you don't, they are just trying to get into your head for some crazy reason. Don't fall for it. Take action and do all the above to get yourself some peace of mind.

stalking - cherylsue

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Thanks for your post. I believe they have been following me forever in the sense that they become connected with everything and everyone that I am connected with and they say unpleasant things about me rather than to me in an effort to isolate me from others. I am referring to a disgruntled childhood friend and also my cousin, who are friends with each other.

But several months ago, I found information on targeted individuals and I think this is what I am. I believe the two women are in on it and put me in it.

They feel they have a right to invade privacy, so I thought maybe something had been put on my record that I committed a crime, although I have never been arrested. Also, I didn't know if this information would be shared with me if I did find the right person at the court to ask.

I wrote my original post in a state of frustration and anger. I try to control this but I do get very upset at times.

I guess my next step is to check my record at the court just to make sure.

I appreciate your help!

How would they - xx

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"put something on your record"? Random people can't just alter official records. How would they get access to it? And contrary to what they may have led you to believe in elementary school, we don't go through life with a single "permanent record" available for all to see.

official records - cherylsue

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If you are targeted, there are very powerful people who are against you. It seems that they can do anything they want. They do set the target up to be accused of wrongdoing. People around the situation are told not to share any of this with the target, so the target has no chance to speak for herself on her own behalf.

This is an effort to destroy someone by people who don't want to be bothered going through traditional legal channels, or maybe it's just all a setup anyway. It's all about revenge.

I should add - cherylsue

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It's all about revenge and sadism.

Maybe it's time to see a lawyer about...sm - Anon

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a law suit for slander or defamation of character. If they insert themselves into your activities and defame you while there at it, you may have a good case. I also think your imagination is running a little wild regarding the issue of targeted persons. How important are your former friend and cousin that they have the power to influence authorities to mess with your legal records? Unless they're high-placed CEOs or politicians, I very much doubt they could do such a thing. If they have ruined your social life and standing in the community with their lies and gossip, I really think a law suit is your best bet.

All of this sounds so far fetched, so unfounded, - paranoid, completely off base

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Reading through the posts I am unbelieving what I see about people answering like this is some kind of vendetta against this person when in actuality it sounds more like the person is totally paranoid. Why are people buying into this tall tale? Don't get me wrong, I think she needs help but not in a court type situation.

Well, yes, but did you look up targeted individuals? - sm

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I think it may be a case of bullying by two friends, probably on the basis of the victim's paranoia. A vicious circle resulted.

Unfortunately, reading about "targeted individuals," didn't help. It is tinfoil-hat conspiracy material right up there with men in black, lizard people, alien abductions, mind control, thought-beaming, secret poisonings and everything else.

Here's a quote: "Targeted Individuals are often hit with gassing (blowing noxious bio/chemical fumes into the target's environment) and they are attacked psychologically, as well. These abuses often lead to the need for psychological and physiological medical attention, thereby providing a good cash flow for the medical community and for big pharma., while taking care of someone's personal problem at the same time."

I don't know that they - cherylsue

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messed with my legal records but it's worth checking.

I think mostly I have been verbally trashed over many years with no answer from me because, as I said, I wasn't given the opportunity.

When I happened to come upon the books on targeted individuals several months ago, I knew this was what was on me, along with the 2 women. I don't experience everything but enough to know that it's true.

Someone can have a person targeted if they have a connection with someone in this "secret society." For example, a woman wrote a book about becoming a target due to a conflict with her neighbor over her neighbor's cat.

Just walk up to them and tell them. sm - Anon

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to stop bad-mouthing you and spreading lies or you'll sue their butts off, then make an appointment with a lawyer. There is no "secret society." Everything you read in books is not factual. Also, please try to talk to a medical health professional to help you sort out these idea high-flying ideas you have. You seem to be very paranoid and that is not normal. Good luck.

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