Been There - Too Posted: Aug 19th, 2018 - 7:04 am In Reply to: You have for the most part described my ex-husband. - He was a verbal abuser.
This is a situation that will never change for you unless you leave. That may be hard to hear, because when you love someone, you do not want to leave... but you have to or things will not end well for you. Trust that. First off, if you want to join a group, consider AlAnon... which is a group for spouses of alcoholics or their families. It will help to open YOUR eyes to the situation, and give you support in your decision. Then also consider When Georgia Smiled, which is an online group for women who are being abused. They give you ideas and suggestions on how to extricate yourself from the relationship. They say that the most dangerous part for you is AFTER you leave, because then they get vindictive and can harm you. Please take this advice and start to live your life for yourself again. I used to wish and hope that my ex would "change" again, and I also wished for time spent alone so that I could do the things I wanted to do, and did not have to walk on egg shells trying to keep him satisfied. You cannot satisfy him... ever... so satisfy yourself. Good Luck to you, young lady! Do this for you.
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