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Posted: Aug 18th, 2018 - 11:02 am In Reply to: needing help - burnedout

On the other hand, he tells me he loves me every day, calls me beautiful, comes behind me and hugs me (then touches my breasts or other areas that I've told him I'm not fond of), so it's not that he never tells me anything kind. It's just that it's more and more, I look forward to being alone, him being gone, and getting to do what I want, even if it's just watching TV. When I try to talk to him, I sometimes get emotional and start crying, and that makes him angry and he says, "Why can't we have a conversation without you crying? That gets aggravating!" I can't help I'm emotional. He has called me an emotional wreck. Even if something is his fault, he will turn it around on me, saying that I instigated it, just like the other night when he got in my face. I said I was going to bed, but he felt something in my voice when I said it, so that triggered something in him to get angry, so I started the whole thing. I'm exhausted...totally exhausted.

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