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I need some advice. I have been long-distance friends with someone for almost 40 years. I married and had kids, etc. She is single and having a rough time. She seems to always make terrible choices. Well, to cut to the chase - whenever I talked to her I have to screen what I say. If I tell her about the "good things" in my life she gets depressed and compares my life with hers. If I tell her about the "bad things" fights with hubby,illnesses etc - she goes around the bend worrying and wants to try to fix everything. Therefore, I really don't know what to talk about. You can just talk about the weather and how's your extended family so much. The other night she called and then I got an E-mail saying I was really rude to her. My husband was sitting there through the entire, albeit short, conversation and he didn't think I was rude. Over the years she has been in therapy and her Mom and brother were/are bipolar. She has a big heart and really cares about people - I just can't deal with her mood swings and if I say anything about them I'm afraid she'll really get in a state. I have enough nonsense in my life right now and just can't deal with it! any advice?
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