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I finally split from my husband tonight. I finally had enough. I had had enough, but the last straw was tonight. He hasn't been providing for his family. We had no Christmas money, then my son's birthday come and no money for that. It takes all I can make to pay the bills and eat. He said he couldn't find a job but my stepdad told him about 2 GOOD jobs he could get on at and he wouldn't even go apply. The cell phones got cut off. I had to pay that.
Then he wants to use my car that I just put gas in to go to his friends. Well I was off work so I said I'll ride with you. Oh no, I'm coming right back. Just was adamant he did not want me going. I said well if I am not good enough to go with you anywhere you aren't using my car. He hasn't contributed a dime towards the car. So he cussed me and screamed and hollered and said give me the keys or I'm bashing the windows out of it. It is a 2010 Beetle. I said go ahead, but I'm not giving you the keys. So he took his boot outside and started hitting the car with it. Hitting the glass, hit the fender. Then he told me again to give him the blankety blank keys RIGHT NOW. I said nope, you kiss my ____! U aren't gonna treat me like crap and bully me and beat on my car and think I'm gonna hand over the keys. So then he jumped on the hood and proceeded to jump up and down and then started kicking the windshield. I said go ahead, you are leaving here tonight buddy alright but it won't be in that car. I said get your stuff and LEAVE NOW. He said he wasn't leaving, so I left and went to my moms. While I was gone he left.
I told his brother to come pick up his clothes or either I'd drop them off over there. He come to get my husband's stuff and I said take it ALL. Everything. I do not want to see him. That was the last straw. There was no reason to act like that. I'm not gonna be left at home on my night off like I am so many times while he rides around in my car that he contributed nothing toward burning my gas. But I'm not good enough to go. Please say a prayer for me and help me to be strong and not let him come back. It's hard but I am also relieved to not have to listen to him now too.
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