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Is there any chance that we can kind of agree


Posted: Jan 12, 2010

collectively to try to avoid the hit and run, nee ner nee ner neeeee ner (sorry, hope you get the point-that is not something I have ever even thought about trying to spell before now) type of comments that we are ALL guilty of and just calmly discuss our views on their merits?? No more of the "if so-and-so were a dem" or "if so-and-so were a Repub" and other silliness like this?  If it appears, can we all just ignore it?  Lets not add fuel to the real "trolls" out there from either side.  Truly,  I read through this day after day and there are so, so, SO many posts that are clearly intended to just get a negative rise out of the opposition, or to get in a dig, often with limited to no connection to the original post or the post it was supposedly in response to.  Honestly, maybe we could do our small part to actually exchange ideas and links and resources and maybe enlighten each other, if we could all make the effort to read all posts with an open mind, consider our response before posting, and if the only response we have is a dig or nasty remark, keep it to ourselves until we can give a reasonable, thoughtful and calm response.  We have agreed, at least some of us, that we need to pull together regardless of political affiliation, but the climate in this forum is not helping.  It has been largely about just attack, insult and run, or defend, insult and run.  As I said, all of us, myself included, are guilty.  Maybe we just need to think and consider before we post or respond to others posts.  Is this something that anyone will consider, or am I being too much of an idealist and naive??? I think most of us have this in us.

Colleen

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Thanks Colleen - oldone

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Read your post twice. Makes really good sense. Yes we are all guilty and yes we should pull together. Thanks for the thoughts.

In scanning the subject lines in the posts, maybe we - could lose the sarcasm as

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well as the name calling and insults. We are all adults and I think we need to show some respect for each others opinions, whether we agree or not. Sometimes, we just need to agree to disagree and say so,then walk away. We all teach our kids, I hope, to respect others and their opinions, not call names or insult others-we should be holding ourselves to the same standard we demand of our children, instead of acting like children ourselves.

I couldn't agree more! (nm) - Nikki

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:-)

Thank you Colleen - CMTer

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I did like coming to the forum to post, but it would just get so heated up from both sides, I gave up trying to post anything because I did find myself at times getting too defensive. But, you are right and thanks for posting this, I hope we can all try and act like adults and respond with respect and consideration, as I will, for each other's info, ideas or comments, or whatever we can bring to this forum.

Otherwise best to just stay on the sidelines, and not respond with hurtful or sarcastic remarks.

Excellent post, Colleen. (sm) - Nikki

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Thanks for writing this because it's something, IMHO, that needed to be written.

We have a new year here. We're all Americans, and there are important issues to debate. If we could do this with a show of respect for other posters, who knows what we could accomplish?

I'm sometimes guilty of what you describe, and I'm trying very hard not to do that any more.

Again, thanks very much for your post, Colleen. I hope it helps to bring more meaningful debate to this board.

Thanks, but judging by the limited response to - Colleen

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this post, I am wondering if it means most would rather keep doing what we have been doing, just name calling and insulting, showing no respect for each other and learning nothing. I hope that is wrong. It would be really disappointing to think there may some that just want to be angry and divided and limited in their information. I hope not, I really do. That would be sad.

I had hoped there would be more responses to such a (sm) - Nikki

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gentle request, a request for a little respect (to and from both sides), a request that most people LIVE by every day.

It was a good, valiant effort, Colleen. I guess we'll just have to wait and see if things improve. I'm still hoping they will. :-)
Me, too. If not, we know where some of these - Colleen
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posters are coming from. Come on people, lets agree to act at least as somewhat older than our children!

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