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My husband is driving me nuts. He is not working and every single day he comes in and interrupts my work wanting to have sex. He's like a child. He will not give up. I tell him no, I need to work. He sits there and says stupid stuff like "you'll enjoy it, I promise" blah, blah, blah. We are in our 40s and have been married for 21 years.
I'm starting to get angry because he acts as though I work from home, he can interrupt me whenever he wants just like one of the kids! Another thing is I am at a point in my life where I don't NEED to have sex every single day. I would say maybe once a week, if that much. I just don't want to have sex. And finally our marriage is strained because he doesn't have a job and hasn't even looked for one in a long time. I'm working 2 jobs and he says he will be my house husband except the house is a complete a total mess! He drinks too much. He took the laundry over and the kids and I can never find any of clothes. We throw them into the hamper and he takes the hamper to the basement and we never see our clothes again until I go and search them out and find them either sitting in the dryer or wadded up the basket, clean but wrinkled because he didn't bother to fold them.
So as you can see I am very dissatisfied and stressed in many ways and as you can imagine, I am not in the mood. Today my husband and I had a discussion about this because again he was trying to interrupt me for sex (which by the way I had sex with him yesterday to shut him up, so it's not like I haven't had sex with him in months!!!). He basically tried to make me feel like I was strange and something was wrong with me and he actually said and I quote "You should be happy that I still want to have sex with you after all these years." Well now that's romantiic! Then he says most women would love to have sex every day or every other day, which prompted me to post here. I figure I could take a poll and see how often other woman have sex and how often they WANT to have sex.
Sorry if this is too personal or offensive to some, but I'm past the point of being polite and I just need some answers!
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