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frustrated wife

Posted: Jul 17, 2010

Hubbie doing his butt imitation and he has it down quite well. Why is it when things don't go their way - they make your life a living **** and it's all because "you are too sensitive"! Can't afford to leave, make zilch in transcription now, have health issues and need his insurance. Can't win for trying - just venting. He just totally ignored me this morning and looked right at me..... really rude, cruel and mean! I'm stuck until something gives financially as my med bills without insurance are huge.... As I said just wanted a virtual shoulder to cry on!

**** Leave off the language. Moderator ****

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Can relate some, my DH was being a total ** last night - sm -

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yelling at the kids to go to bed. It was 10 and they were a bit wired so not sleepy. Normally go to bed about 9 but in the summer we are flexible to 10 or so. He was just being a super jerk about it because he wanted sex last night and wanted them asleep so we could get it on. Told him his being a total ** does nothing to get me in the mood. --- as for being stuck, I am also in a not good financial situation and holy expect that when it is cleared up in 4-5 years for him to file for divorce (or I may, depends on how things go after financial issues are cleared up), but right now we need each other and I know for a fact it would kill him not to be a full-time dad, so in the meantime we get along as best we can.

** Leave off the language. Moderator **

I hear that! - Another frustrated wife

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My hubbie has an alcohol problem that he refuses to acknowledge that he has. In fact, he's passed out right now. But before he passed out, he made it know to me that I had the problem.

What the heck? I feel like running . . .

frustrated wife 1 again - tired mt

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Me again. My husband is an adult child of alcoholics and people have told me he is a "dry" alcoholic. When he drank in the past it got pretty ugly. Now he doesn't drink, but still acts like he does. I just never know what little infarction is going to set him off. It's like living with a volcano.

Funny you should say that about running I've been thinking about starting to walk/run again just to get the hell out of the house!

totally get you man! - :)

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Left a relationship like that just to find myself in one with a control freak. Have you googled control freak? I have... he is textbook. So we moved in together when I found this out and now I'm stuck. We will see what happens with this one! But girl you'll get through this... somehow us women always get through stupid MEN!

why is it that... - anon2

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some of you women have to "move in" with a man and then see yourselves as "stuck?" Why can you not stay independent, keep your own living quarters, keep control of your own finances, keep control of your own selves without allowing some man to control every thing you do, think, and feel? I do not understand this. You can still have s e x without actually "moving in" with someone. That is all these types of "relationships" amount to anyway. I have been in all of your shoes at one time or another in life, but I learned quickly that if I want to retain control of myself and what is mine as a human right, I stay independent. Is insecurity so rampant these days that a man and a woman just HAVE to live together? and then two years or so down the roan you are on a public forum whining and complaining about how much control you have lost of yourselves?? Do not just "run" for exercise or to "get out of the house." Just RUN, as fast and as far away as you can. Take back the control you so easily gave up. Only you can do that for yourselves. Once he has it, he is not going to give it up. So, the only answer to that dilemma is not to give it up to him in the first place. More Power to all of you! Get your lives back, for yourselves, and find your true selves without a man! Good luck to all of you!

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