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Posted: Jun 12th, 2019 - 2:57 pm In Reply to: I DO positively realize what you said and appreciate that... - Shasta

My feeling is that if he has acted this way once, he'll do it again or in a different way. Just like once a cheater, always a cheater. There may be a few who would never cheat again, but they would be very hard to trust again.

Only you can make the decision, but if you don't really want to stay in this marriage and are hoping he does other things so you can "kick him to the curb," then the marriage is pretty much over. You can file for divorce for irreconcilable differences. Having an app downloaded on your phone without your knowledge or approval and emails deleted to hide the fact are pretty irreconcilable differences!

Good luck and keep SAFE.

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What would you think if hubby installed Life360 phone app? - Shasta (Views: 852, 2019-06-11, 2:26 pm)
- I would ask him why he did it and why he hid the icon. - sm (Views: 467, 2019-06-11, 2:53 pm)
  - Good idea .... - Shasta (Views: 356, 2019-06-11, 4:51 pm)
- Asking him would probably be the best approach... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 431, 2019-06-11, 3:22 pm)
  - I have disabled the "tracking" feature... - Shasta (Views: 383, 2019-06-11, 4:57 pm)
    - Shasta - tired fingers (Views: 410, 2019-06-11, 7:22 pm)
      - Jealous and insecure - Shasta (Views: 405, 2019-06-11, 7:42 pm)
    - I've read the rest of this discussion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 515, 2019-06-11, 9:03 pm)
      - My last marriage was the total opposite... - Shasta (Views: 451, 2019-06-11, 10:34 pm)
- I just discovered something else... - Shasta (Views: 519, 2019-06-11, 6:39 pm)
  - ...continued - Shasta (Views: 474, 2019-06-11, 6:44 pm)
    - After all that I wouldnt even bother any more, he would be - out on the curb as soon as he came home. SM (Views: 420, 2019-06-11, 7:52 pm)
      - Now THAT's what I guess I was wanting to know opinions about... - Shasta (Views: 435, 2019-06-11, 8:32 pm)
        It is a first step on a slippery slope, I went thru something similar - when crap like this starts, it snowballs. SM (Views: 406, 2019-06-11, 8:50 pm)
        Sooo true. This is the "first incident" though. - Shasta (Views: 362, 2019-06-11, 10:40 pm)
        What part of - being (Views: 311, 2019-06-16, 8:47 pm)
    - This is an uncomfortable conversation topic - StillAnMT (Views: 392, 2019-06-12, 1:15 pm)
      - About the pastor suggestion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 381, 2019-06-12, 1:52 pm)
      - I DO positively realize what you said and appreciate that... - Shasta (Views: 400, 2019-06-12, 2:42 pm)
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        I think - you just (Views: 361, 2019-06-12, 7:27 pm)
        Think of counseling in this sense - StillAnMT (Views: 306, 2019-06-18, 8:41 am)
- Ask him why he did it and go from there. - sm (Views: 424, 2019-06-12, 6:17 pm)
- Red Flag - sm (Views: 384, 2019-06-13, 9:53 am)
- Two questions. - sm (Views: 341, 2019-06-13, 12:55 pm)
  - Thanks for everyone's input and opinions.... - Shasta (Views: 380, 2019-06-13, 1:26 pm)
    - Of course you can kick him - to the curb (Views: 334, 2019-06-18, 7:46 am)
- Big hugs with however you handle this. Be strong! - nm (Views: 317, 2019-06-13, 8:30 pm)
- **UPDATE** - Shasta (Views: 321, 2019-06-18, 2:19 pm)
- I love 360. I am a senior and my son signed me up. He - sm (Views: 310, 2019-06-23, 5:25 pm)