I DO positively realize what you said and appreciate that... - Shasta

Posted: Jun 12th, 2019 - 2:42 pm In Reply to: This is an uncomfortable conversation topic - StillAnMT

I don't know any of you, and you don't know the history. I have talked to my mom and one friend who will probably never get to meet him due to location, etc. Can't involve kids or friends who know him. Anyway, I'm going to ask him about what he did to my phone and see if he lies (I'll bet he will though), and then confront him on it. It will change our relationship for the worse, but nothing I can do about that. Trust will have to be earned. I really don't want marriage counseling because, honestly, I don't want this marriage. He has probably detected as much, although I am always respectful, kind, etc. to him. I know, though, that a good marriage is more than those things. Anyway, thanks for the reply.

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What would you think if hubby installed Life360 phone app? - Shasta (Views: 791, 2019-06-11, 2:26 pm)
- I would ask him why he did it and why he hid the icon. - sm (Views: 418, 2019-06-11, 2:53 pm)
  - Good idea .... - Shasta (Views: 304, 2019-06-11, 4:51 pm)
- Asking him would probably be the best approach... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 367, 2019-06-11, 3:22 pm)
  - I have disabled the "tracking" feature... - Shasta (Views: 333, 2019-06-11, 4:57 pm)
    - Shasta - tired fingers (Views: 359, 2019-06-11, 7:22 pm)
      - Jealous and insecure - Shasta (Views: 358, 2019-06-11, 7:42 pm)
    - I've read the rest of this discussion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 460, 2019-06-11, 9:03 pm)
      - My last marriage was the total opposite... - Shasta (Views: 402, 2019-06-11, 10:34 pm)
- I just discovered something else... - Shasta (Views: 409, 2019-06-11, 6:39 pm)
  - ...continued - Shasta (Views: 411, 2019-06-11, 6:44 pm)
    - After all that I wouldnt even bother any more, he would be - out on the curb as soon as he came home. SM (Views: 364, 2019-06-11, 7:52 pm)
      - Now THAT's what I guess I was wanting to know opinions about... - Shasta (Views: 384, 2019-06-11, 8:32 pm)
        It is a first step on a slippery slope, I went thru something similar - when crap like this starts, it snowballs. SM (Views: 357, 2019-06-11, 8:50 pm)
        Sooo true. This is the "first incident" though. - Shasta (Views: 309, 2019-06-11, 10:40 pm)
        What part of - being (Views: 258, 2019-06-16, 8:47 pm)
    - This is an uncomfortable conversation topic - StillAnMT (Views: 345, 2019-06-12, 1:15 pm)
      - About the pastor suggestion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 331, 2019-06-12, 1:52 pm)
      - I DO positively realize what you said and appreciate that... - Shasta
        My 2 - Cents (Views: 362, 2019-06-12, 2:57 pm)
        I think - you just (Views: 311, 2019-06-12, 7:27 pm)
        Think of counseling in this sense - StillAnMT (Views: 257, 2019-06-18, 8:41 am)
- Ask him why he did it and go from there. - sm (Views: 301, 2019-06-12, 6:17 pm)
- Red Flag - sm (Views: 326, 2019-06-13, 9:53 am)
- Two questions. - sm (Views: 290, 2019-06-13, 12:55 pm)
  - Thanks for everyone's input and opinions.... - Shasta (Views: 315, 2019-06-13, 1:26 pm)
    - Of course you can kick him - to the curb (Views: 286, 2019-06-18, 7:46 am)
- Big hugs with however you handle this. Be strong! - nm (Views: 263, 2019-06-13, 8:30 pm)
- **UPDATE** - Shasta (Views: 275, 2019-06-18, 2:19 pm)
- I love 360. I am a senior and my son signed me up. He - sm (Views: 185, 2019-06-23, 5:25 pm)