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It is a first step on a slippery slope, I went thru something similar - when crap like this starts, it snowballs. SM

Posted: Jun 11th, 2019 - 8:50 pm In Reply to: Now THAT's what I guess I was wanting to know opinions about... - Shasta

You're the one who has to live with it and put up with it. I put up with crap and made excuses for it because I loved him and didnt want to give up on him, took me long enough to wake up and stop the crap for my own health, sanity, and I was ready to shoot one of us to stop the garbage.

Yes, there will be more crap coming down the road, that's a certainty and you're the only one who can decide how much more of your life you want to waste wandering aimlessly down that road looking for the off ramp. If you're unhappy now and wish that he would give you a more valid reaso for a divorce, you'll be even more unhappy the longer you want and the more of your life you waste.

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What would you think if hubby installed Life360 phone app? - Shasta (Views: 846, 2019-06-11, 2:26 pm)
- I would ask him why he did it and why he hid the icon. - sm (Views: 461, 2019-06-11, 2:53 pm)
  - Good idea .... - Shasta (Views: 349, 2019-06-11, 4:51 pm)
- Asking him would probably be the best approach... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 426, 2019-06-11, 3:22 pm)
  - I have disabled the "tracking" feature... - Shasta (Views: 377, 2019-06-11, 4:57 pm)
    - Shasta - tired fingers (Views: 403, 2019-06-11, 7:22 pm)
      - Jealous and insecure - Shasta (Views: 400, 2019-06-11, 7:42 pm)
    - I've read the rest of this discussion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 509, 2019-06-11, 9:03 pm)
      - My last marriage was the total opposite... - Shasta (Views: 446, 2019-06-11, 10:34 pm)
- I just discovered something else... - Shasta (Views: 512, 2019-06-11, 6:39 pm)
  - ...continued - Shasta (Views: 469, 2019-06-11, 6:44 pm)
    - After all that I wouldnt even bother any more, he would be - out on the curb as soon as he came home. SM (Views: 414, 2019-06-11, 7:52 pm)
      - Now THAT's what I guess I was wanting to know opinions about... - Shasta (Views: 431, 2019-06-11, 8:32 pm)
        It is a first step on a slippery slope, I went thru something similar - when crap like this starts, it snowballs. SM
        Sooo true. This is the "first incident" though. - Shasta (Views: 357, 2019-06-11, 10:40 pm)
        What part of - being (Views: 307, 2019-06-16, 8:47 pm)
    - This is an uncomfortable conversation topic - StillAnMT (Views: 388, 2019-06-12, 1:15 pm)
      - About the pastor suggestion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 376, 2019-06-12, 1:52 pm)
      - I DO positively realize what you said and appreciate that... - Shasta (Views: 397, 2019-06-12, 2:42 pm)
        My 2 - Cents (Views: 411, 2019-06-12, 2:57 pm)
        I think - you just (Views: 355, 2019-06-12, 7:27 pm)
        Think of counseling in this sense - StillAnMT (Views: 301, 2019-06-18, 8:41 am)
- Ask him why he did it and go from there. - sm (Views: 410, 2019-06-12, 6:17 pm)
- Red Flag - sm (Views: 379, 2019-06-13, 9:53 am)
- Two questions. - sm (Views: 335, 2019-06-13, 12:55 pm)
  - Thanks for everyone's input and opinions.... - Shasta (Views: 375, 2019-06-13, 1:26 pm)
    - Of course you can kick him - to the curb (Views: 328, 2019-06-18, 7:46 am)
- Big hugs with however you handle this. Be strong! - nm (Views: 312, 2019-06-13, 8:30 pm)
- **UPDATE** - Shasta (Views: 317, 2019-06-18, 2:19 pm)
- I love 360. I am a senior and my son signed me up. He - sm (Views: 297, 2019-06-23, 5:25 pm)