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My last marriage was the total opposite... - Shasta

Posted: Jun 11th, 2019 - 10:34 pm In Reply to: I've read the rest of this discussion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops

...so this is all new to me--this "control" thing. I had mentioned meeting someone online. The real issue is not simply online but, rather, making sure you KNOW the person very well before marrying. And we did meet IRL almost immediately. I didn't know about his medical issues either until he (and all his pharmaceuticals moved in). He just hid so much. For us, 1 year (and part-time) was not enough. Thanks for sharing. I've got lots to think about.

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What would you think if hubby installed Life360 phone app? - Shasta (Views: 847, 2019-06-11, 2:26 pm)
- I would ask him why he did it and why he hid the icon. - sm (Views: 462, 2019-06-11, 2:53 pm)
  - Good idea .... - Shasta (Views: 350, 2019-06-11, 4:51 pm)
- Asking him would probably be the best approach... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 426, 2019-06-11, 3:22 pm)
  - I have disabled the "tracking" feature... - Shasta (Views: 378, 2019-06-11, 4:57 pm)
    - Shasta - tired fingers (Views: 405, 2019-06-11, 7:22 pm)
      - Jealous and insecure - Shasta (Views: 401, 2019-06-11, 7:42 pm)
    - I've read the rest of this discussion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 510, 2019-06-11, 9:03 pm)
      - My last marriage was the total opposite... - Shasta
- I just discovered something else... - Shasta (Views: 513, 2019-06-11, 6:39 pm)
  - ...continued - Shasta (Views: 470, 2019-06-11, 6:44 pm)
    - After all that I wouldnt even bother any more, he would be - out on the curb as soon as he came home. SM (Views: 414, 2019-06-11, 7:52 pm)
      - Now THAT's what I guess I was wanting to know opinions about... - Shasta (Views: 432, 2019-06-11, 8:32 pm)
        It is a first step on a slippery slope, I went thru something similar - when crap like this starts, it snowballs. SM (Views: 403, 2019-06-11, 8:50 pm)
        Sooo true. This is the "first incident" though. - Shasta (Views: 358, 2019-06-11, 10:40 pm)
        What part of - being (Views: 307, 2019-06-16, 8:47 pm)
    - This is an uncomfortable conversation topic - StillAnMT (Views: 389, 2019-06-12, 1:15 pm)
      - About the pastor suggestion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 377, 2019-06-12, 1:52 pm)
      - I DO positively realize what you said and appreciate that... - Shasta (Views: 397, 2019-06-12, 2:42 pm)
        My 2 - Cents (Views: 412, 2019-06-12, 2:57 pm)
        I think - you just (Views: 355, 2019-06-12, 7:27 pm)
        Think of counseling in this sense - StillAnMT (Views: 302, 2019-06-18, 8:41 am)
- Ask him why he did it and go from there. - sm (Views: 411, 2019-06-12, 6:17 pm)
- Red Flag - sm (Views: 380, 2019-06-13, 9:53 am)
- Two questions. - sm (Views: 336, 2019-06-13, 12:55 pm)
  - Thanks for everyone's input and opinions.... - Shasta (Views: 376, 2019-06-13, 1:26 pm)
    - Of course you can kick him - to the curb (Views: 329, 2019-06-18, 7:46 am)
- Big hugs with however you handle this. Be strong! - nm (Views: 313, 2019-06-13, 8:30 pm)
- **UPDATE** - Shasta (Views: 318, 2019-06-18, 2:19 pm)
- I love 360. I am a senior and my son signed me up. He - sm (Views: 298, 2019-06-23, 5:25 pm)