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Now THAT's what I guess I was wanting to know opinions about... - Shasta

Posted: Jun 11th, 2019 - 8:32 pm In Reply to: After all that I wouldnt even bother any more, he would be - out on the curb as soon as he came home. SM

I feel like, is this grounds for a divorce? (I've so been wanting him to want to break up.) He pushed me into this marriage. You really don't know someone until you live with them. I knew him a year (although with him gone half the time) and finally said yes. Trips to Aruba, Florida, Hawaii, etc. were enticing as well. But I'm sure I loved him.(??) I've dug a hole and soooo wished I had waited. Hoping there will be an "out" of this union. Particularly hard as I'm a Christian woman, so it's been particularly tough.
But, I'm not sure this "phone app" thing is a valid reason. But, I do believe there will be more crap coming to the forefront after learning about this and his capabilities now. Too bad he would never cheat on me. That sounds terrible. Anyway, thanks for sharing your thoughts. I'll surely be mulling it over.

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What would you think if hubby installed Life360 phone app? - Shasta (Views: 864, 2019-06-11, 2:26 pm)
- I would ask him why he did it and why he hid the icon. - sm (Views: 476, 2019-06-11, 2:53 pm)
  - Good idea .... - Shasta (Views: 365, 2019-06-11, 4:51 pm)
- Asking him would probably be the best approach... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 455, 2019-06-11, 3:22 pm)
  - I have disabled the "tracking" feature... - Shasta (Views: 391, 2019-06-11, 4:57 pm)
    - Shasta - tired fingers (Views: 418, 2019-06-11, 7:22 pm)
      - Jealous and insecure - Shasta (Views: 418, 2019-06-11, 7:42 pm)
    - I've read the rest of this discussion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 523, 2019-06-11, 9:03 pm)
      - My last marriage was the total opposite... - Shasta (Views: 459, 2019-06-11, 10:34 pm)
- I just discovered something else... - Shasta (Views: 527, 2019-06-11, 6:39 pm)
  - ...continued - Shasta (Views: 482, 2019-06-11, 6:44 pm)
    - After all that I wouldnt even bother any more, he would be - out on the curb as soon as he came home. SM (Views: 428, 2019-06-11, 7:52 pm)
      - Now THAT's what I guess I was wanting to know opinions about... - Shasta
        It is a first step on a slippery slope, I went thru something similar - when crap like this starts, it snowballs. SM (Views: 417, 2019-06-11, 8:50 pm)
        Sooo true. This is the "first incident" though. - Shasta (Views: 372, 2019-06-11, 10:40 pm)
        What part of - being (Views: 320, 2019-06-16, 8:47 pm)
    - This is an uncomfortable conversation topic - StillAnMT (Views: 401, 2019-06-12, 1:15 pm)
      - About the pastor suggestion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 390, 2019-06-12, 1:52 pm)
      - I DO positively realize what you said and appreciate that... - Shasta (Views: 411, 2019-06-12, 2:42 pm)
        My 2 - Cents (Views: 425, 2019-06-12, 2:57 pm)
        I think - you just (Views: 371, 2019-06-12, 7:27 pm)
        Think of counseling in this sense - StillAnMT (Views: 314, 2019-06-18, 8:41 am)
- Ask him why he did it and go from there. - sm (Views: 440, 2019-06-12, 6:17 pm)
- Red Flag - sm (Views: 393, 2019-06-13, 9:53 am)
- Two questions. - sm (Views: 350, 2019-06-13, 12:55 pm)
  - Thanks for everyone's input and opinions.... - Shasta (Views: 388, 2019-06-13, 1:26 pm)
    - Of course you can kick him - to the curb (Views: 343, 2019-06-18, 7:46 am)
- Big hugs with however you handle this. Be strong! - nm (Views: 325, 2019-06-13, 8:30 pm)
- **UPDATE** - Shasta (Views: 332, 2019-06-18, 2:19 pm)
- I love 360. I am a senior and my son signed me up. He - sm (Views: 331, 2019-06-23, 5:25 pm)