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This is an uncomfortable conversation topic - StillAnMT

Posted: Jun 12th, 2019 - 1:15 pm In Reply to: ...continued - Shasta

Shasta, this is serious and very personal stuff that you are asking for advice on. I am thinking the best thing you can do is establish a relationship with a pastor, marriage counselor, etc. - someone whom you can see face-to-face and has the opportunity to get to know you. That takes time. This issue will not get resolved in one setting. We here on MTStars do not know you, your husband, or all the hundreds of little details that pre-date this episode yet are important to the story and to your decision.

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What would you think if hubby installed Life360 phone app? - Shasta (Views: 864, 2019-06-11, 2:26 pm)
- I would ask him why he did it and why he hid the icon. - sm (Views: 476, 2019-06-11, 2:53 pm)
  - Good idea .... - Shasta (Views: 366, 2019-06-11, 4:51 pm)
- Asking him would probably be the best approach... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 455, 2019-06-11, 3:22 pm)
  - I have disabled the "tracking" feature... - Shasta (Views: 391, 2019-06-11, 4:57 pm)
    - Shasta - tired fingers (Views: 419, 2019-06-11, 7:22 pm)
      - Jealous and insecure - Shasta (Views: 419, 2019-06-11, 7:42 pm)
    - I've read the rest of this discussion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 524, 2019-06-11, 9:03 pm)
      - My last marriage was the total opposite... - Shasta (Views: 459, 2019-06-11, 10:34 pm)
- I just discovered something else... - Shasta (Views: 528, 2019-06-11, 6:39 pm)
  - ...continued - Shasta (Views: 482, 2019-06-11, 6:44 pm)
    - After all that I wouldnt even bother any more, he would be - out on the curb as soon as he came home. SM (Views: 428, 2019-06-11, 7:52 pm)
      - Now THAT's what I guess I was wanting to know opinions about... - Shasta (Views: 446, 2019-06-11, 8:32 pm)
        It is a first step on a slippery slope, I went thru something similar - when crap like this starts, it snowballs. SM (Views: 417, 2019-06-11, 8:50 pm)
        Sooo true. This is the "first incident" though. - Shasta (Views: 373, 2019-06-11, 10:40 pm)
        What part of - being (Views: 321, 2019-06-16, 8:47 pm)
    - This is an uncomfortable conversation topic - StillAnMT
      - About the pastor suggestion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 391, 2019-06-12, 1:52 pm)
      - I DO positively realize what you said and appreciate that... - Shasta (Views: 412, 2019-06-12, 2:42 pm)
        My 2 - Cents (Views: 425, 2019-06-12, 2:57 pm)
        I think - you just (Views: 371, 2019-06-12, 7:27 pm)
        Think of counseling in this sense - StillAnMT (Views: 315, 2019-06-18, 8:41 am)
- Ask him why he did it and go from there. - sm (Views: 440, 2019-06-12, 6:17 pm)
- Red Flag - sm (Views: 394, 2019-06-13, 9:53 am)
- Two questions. - sm (Views: 351, 2019-06-13, 12:55 pm)
  - Thanks for everyone's input and opinions.... - Shasta (Views: 389, 2019-06-13, 1:26 pm)
    - Of course you can kick him - to the curb (Views: 344, 2019-06-18, 7:46 am)
- Big hugs with however you handle this. Be strong! - nm (Views: 326, 2019-06-13, 8:30 pm)
- **UPDATE** - Shasta (Views: 332, 2019-06-18, 2:19 pm)
- I love 360. I am a senior and my son signed me up. He - sm (Views: 332, 2019-06-23, 5:25 pm)