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Shasta - tired fingers

Posted: Jun 11th, 2019 - 7:22 pm In Reply to: I have disabled the "tracking" feature... - Shasta

He sounds very controlling. A basis for a "good" marriage is communication, which it sounds like he is not contributing. Please think seriously about what you have "found". Confront him, if you feel safe to do so. But really think about if you are better with him or without him. I commend you for going for the 3rd marriage - which I can't bring myself to even think about (married and divorced twice). You need to do what's best for you and I wish you all the best in whatever you decide.

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What would you think if hubby installed Life360 phone app? - Shasta (Views: 854, 2019-06-11, 2:26 pm)
- I would ask him why he did it and why he hid the icon. - sm (Views: 469, 2019-06-11, 2:53 pm)
  - Good idea .... - Shasta (Views: 359, 2019-06-11, 4:51 pm)
- Asking him would probably be the best approach... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 436, 2019-06-11, 3:22 pm)
  - I have disabled the "tracking" feature... - Shasta (Views: 385, 2019-06-11, 4:57 pm)
    - Shasta - tired fingers
      - Jealous and insecure - Shasta (Views: 408, 2019-06-11, 7:42 pm)
    - I've read the rest of this discussion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 517, 2019-06-11, 9:03 pm)
      - My last marriage was the total opposite... - Shasta (Views: 453, 2019-06-11, 10:34 pm)
- I just discovered something else... - Shasta (Views: 521, 2019-06-11, 6:39 pm)
  - ...continued - Shasta (Views: 476, 2019-06-11, 6:44 pm)
    - After all that I wouldnt even bother any more, he would be - out on the curb as soon as he came home. SM (Views: 422, 2019-06-11, 7:52 pm)
      - Now THAT's what I guess I was wanting to know opinions about... - Shasta (Views: 438, 2019-06-11, 8:32 pm)
        It is a first step on a slippery slope, I went thru something similar - when crap like this starts, it snowballs. SM (Views: 409, 2019-06-11, 8:50 pm)
        Sooo true. This is the "first incident" though. - Shasta (Views: 366, 2019-06-11, 10:40 pm)
        What part of - being (Views: 314, 2019-06-16, 8:47 pm)
    - This is an uncomfortable conversation topic - StillAnMT (Views: 395, 2019-06-12, 1:15 pm)
      - About the pastor suggestion... - BlessedBeTheFrootLoops (Views: 383, 2019-06-12, 1:52 pm)
      - I DO positively realize what you said and appreciate that... - Shasta (Views: 404, 2019-06-12, 2:42 pm)
        My 2 - Cents (Views: 419, 2019-06-12, 2:57 pm)
        I think - you just (Views: 364, 2019-06-12, 7:27 pm)
        Think of counseling in this sense - StillAnMT (Views: 309, 2019-06-18, 8:41 am)
- Ask him why he did it and go from there. - sm (Views: 427, 2019-06-12, 6:17 pm)
- Red Flag - sm (Views: 388, 2019-06-13, 9:53 am)
- Two questions. - sm (Views: 344, 2019-06-13, 12:55 pm)
  - Thanks for everyone's input and opinions.... - Shasta (Views: 382, 2019-06-13, 1:26 pm)
    - Of course you can kick him - to the curb (Views: 336, 2019-06-18, 7:46 am)
- Big hugs with however you handle this. Be strong! - nm (Views: 320, 2019-06-13, 8:30 pm)
- **UPDATE** - Shasta (Views: 324, 2019-06-18, 2:19 pm)
- I love 360. I am a senior and my son signed me up. He - sm (Views: 323, 2019-06-23, 5:25 pm)