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Sister "dissing" me.


Posted: May 3, 2011

Okay here goes - about 2 months ago she was supposed to go with me to my HS reunion then got upset because we were going to meet up with some family members she didn't want to see and bailed.   Then she was supposed to come up over Memorial Day for my Birthday (I even gave her a ticket she could use - she just had to change the name).  She said she couldn't afford it otherwise.  Now she bailed on that saying she has to go back East instead to visit her son, whom she just visited 3 months ago.    I am feeling royally angry and hurt.  I've been to her house or her kid's house four times over the past 6 years and she has only been here once in the 35 years I've lived on the West Coast.  My question is:  Do I have a right to be upset?  (she is the youngest and I've always just accepted her actions, some of which have been really wrong, so she always walks all over me). 

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Sister... - Mary

[ In Reply To ..]
Yes, you have a right to be upset. I have the same problem with my family. Birth order seems to make a difference some of the time in the way a person acts. It seems that the youngest in every family are just big brats who think they can do whatever they want. I am the middle child with an older brother and sister and a younger brother and sister. I have been to all of my siblings homes multiple times and neither of my sisters have been to my home in over 30 years. It's like they think I should do all the traveling to see them. I quit. They can come to see me for a change cuz I'm not going any more. Needless to say, the babies in the family are still big brats. My husband, our youngest son's wife and our youngest son (of course) all seem to be spoiled and selfish and think I have to cater to their wishes simply because they are the babies in their families. It seems like the youngest just never grow up.

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