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He's my grandson but so out of control. The parents punish him for anything he does wrong. It's to the point when they visit, I want to hide. In the store, he knocks packages on the floor, runs all over the store, climbs the shelves, etc. At home, he writes all over the walls, empties cereal boxes, pokes the dog in the eyes, pours his juice or milk on the floor, and more. When here, he sprays people with the water hose, empties the coal bucket and throws things at our dog, grabs DH's tools and tries to break them or breaks his own toys, yanks on the dog's leash, lets his expensive toys lying around (and some have already been driven over), etc. The final straw for me was this weekend here when his father was changing oil in the car. As soon as his father crawled out from under the car with the discarded oil in the pan, GS grabbed it and threw it, getting oil all over the car and ground. When DH told our son he better straighten the kid out or they're going to be in a world of trouble later on and he should punish him for these antics, our son stated he won't spank him and he doesn't like to punish him in any other way because it won't do any good.
What would be the appropriate punishment? The kid doesn't understand the word 'no' unless he says no to something he was told to do. He laughs at everything he does wrong.
Times have changed so I don't know what is acceptable anymore and I certainly don't want to be arrested for punishing the kid. I doubt time-outs would help at all. Throwing toys away doesn't do any good. He gets new toys every week from his other grandmother, aunts and babysitter.
It's really frustrating. It's so hard to not want to intervene or warm his bottom. I've already come in the house to keep my cool, but don't know how much more I can take.
Help anyone?
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