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My husband and I are celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary in January, and we plan on having a small dinner party for about 20 people at the alumni club at the university where we met (and our youngest son is currently a student.) We don't want anyone to give us gifts because: 1. We're throwing the party ourselves, so it would be tacky to expect gifts anyway; and, 2. we really do feel blessed just as we are, don't need anything more and don't want our guests to feel obligated to give us a gift.
How do we word that on an invitation? I did an online search and was actually shocked to read that Emily Post says that even requesting no gifts is tacky. I find that strange. How is saying you don't want gifts tacky? I wouldn't mind suggesting that people sort of "pay it forward" by doing some sort of act of kindness, but I don't want to tell people what to do or which organization to donate to, etc.
Thoughts?
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