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I am looking for opinions on what you would do if the following happened to you. I have suffered from a rare medical condition since 2001. Initially I underwent an operation to remove a pituitary adenoma and within a year of that had to two revascularization procedures (STA-MCA bypasses) due to my internal carotid arteries being occluded from an inflammatory process (the rare medical condition--lymphocytic hypophysitis) in the pituitary area. Due to the devleopment of diplopia several years ago I also had to have radiation therapy to the pituitary. Since 2001 I have had to be on prednisone at one dosage or another, and over the past year have had to take 30 to 40 mg daily to keep the inflammation under control. Anyone who has had to take chronically high dose steroids knows this is not a drug that makes one look their best and I could probably be the poster child for steroid-induced Cushings. Guess you can say I have been through the ringer!
I have worked at my day job for 23 years and have managed to avoid going on disability which I easily could have, but my pride (or stupidity LOL) will not make me throw in the towel yet, as tempting as it has been. Last Friday a fellow employee who has worked here for a couple of years and I do not know very well (she does know of my medical condition/steroid use) came into my office the other day. She told me "you look REALLY bad, I mean, REALLY sick. Your eyes are all puffy and red, your face is all swollen, and do I not realize how bad I look?" I was stunned and at a total loss for words. I just mumbled something to the effect that I did not realize that it was that bad. I wish I were more thick-skinned and not allow things like that to bother me. I am acutely aware that I do not look well and do not need reminders, but that really got to me. I ended up sending her an e-mail basically saying I was sorry my looks offended her, but due to the steroids which I have to take I have no control over the situation and that her comments were hurtful. She never replied to the e-mail and has not mentioned anything.
Most of the old timers up here know what I have been dealing with over the years and if they think the above, they have the courtesy not to say anything. How would you have handled this situation?
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