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My husband and I had a rough patch and separated about a year ago and I started seeing another guy. I KNOW I shoudl have waited until divorced, I was wrong and I didn't. Problem is, now husband and I worked out our issues and the other guy will not leave me alone. I CONSTANTLY called, before I changed my number, contacts me online, writes me actual letters in the mail, telling me how much he loves me and will not give up on me. I have told him and told him that I want my husband, not him, to move on and he refuses. He also constantly talks about me to other people, which I shouldn't care about gossip, but that makes it hard on me and my husband moving forward.
I live in a small town and I would like him to go away, with as least "publicity" as possible. I looked up restraining orders and apparently I can't get one of those (I live in GA) because he never caused harm to me, but I could apply for a stalking order to keep him away. With the stalking order, him and I would have several court dates where I would have to prove he is stalking me (I have letters) and he would have the opportunity to state why he isn't stalking me. I really, really don't want court or a long drawn out process and I don't understand why if I say "leave me alone" I even need to go to court for that.
Does anyone know if there is an easier way to make someone leave you alone? It would seem if you told someone and they said no, then the police could just tell them, I don't know.
Thanks.
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