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My husband has a passive-aggressive personality, and he's often acted out through driving when he's annoyed/mad about something. He denies it, but I don't think I'm paranoid. I'm so sick of this and it's affecting how I feel about him overall. I am constantly on the lookout because he's gawking and not paying attention to what he's doing. Last week he nearly ran a red light, turned in front of another car that had the right of way, and swerved on the highway so that if I hadn't shrieked at him we would have ended up in the ditch (all in the same trip). I have asked him if he thinks he has health issues, and he says no. He often has some excuse--sleepy, wasn't watching (duh)--but sometimes he admits he was just careless or not paying attention. I've probably contributed to this because he knows I'm on the lookout. I'm not willing to get in an accident to prove my point. I know the obvious solution is for me to do the driving or take separate vehicles and say to heck with the price of gas, but it still doesn't address the real issue of him doing this to scare me because he's mad about something. Has anyone here successfully dealt with a passive-aggressive spouse's behavior??
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