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I have got to post this. I just need to vent here. Writing my feelings always seems to help me. My parents have been divorced now for 2-1/2 years. My mom has a boyfriend now. This is the first since she has been divorced. Well, my dad has been a royal pain in the rear since the divorce with stalking, etc. Just can't get the hint. Well, her boyfriend spends time at her house and sometimes she spends time at his. My dad had not bothered to call or talk to me in months. Then when my mom starts seeing this man all of a sudden daddy starts calling ACTING as if he cares about me actually when in reality he is trying to get info on my mom and her new boyfriend. The man is someone my daddy has known for 20 years. They are not good friends but know each other. My dad's land joins my moms land where her house sits. My dad would often come over on his land and sit around just to be nosy and see what my mama was doing. He has a big metal shop on his land and acts as if he is doing something there but he is actually sitting in his truck for hours. Well we thought with the new man staying around a lot he would not feel comfortable sitting around stalking basically. Oh no, he STILL will try to find a hiding spot on his land and watch to see what is going on around my moms. Most times he will be spotted though eventually. He has actually come over to my moms house and pulled up in the drive while mama and her boyfriend were sitting on the porch and asked how they were doing. Then yesterday he was sitting on his land and come over to my mamas and said he needed some matches. Like he still has a right to be coming over there. I mean her boyfriend is like who does he think he is finding excuses to come over here for some reason. Mom's boyfriend went and talked to him Sunday as a matter of fact and he told mom's boyfriend that he would stop coming there and he would go on and leave them alone. He still is doing it though. Her boyfriend also went to the sheriff's dept and talked to the sheriff himself and told him what was taking place. He was told that cars would be patrolling the area to see if they saw him hanging around stalking. Well there hasn't been any cars patrolling or they would see him just sitting in his truck pointed towards my mom's house stalking. He also called me and told me things that mom's boyfriend told him pertaining to me that were not true according to mom. I've decided he is trying to stir the pot. He also wanted one of my mom's friends phone #, which I told him I didn't know, to call and tell her that my mama was letting this man stay over at night and she was spending nights at his house too. He will call me several times a day and I know he is just fishing for information. I am so tired of this. I hate to just cut him off (I've had to before) but he is just lying and stirring things up. Oh and daddy has a girlfriend he lives with. I'm sure she would be happy to know he spends days watching my mom. I am so sick of this craziness. When will it end? Maybe her boyfriend will take further action when he finds out tomorrow about this. He is still sitting out there on his land mom said at 10 pm at night just sitting in his truck. She went and asked him what he was doing sitting there and he said oh I'm not watching you I am waiting to meet someone here. Well he has been sitting there supposedly waiting on someone for hours. He is full of it. He is just stalking.
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