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Feeling very sad - Sad

Posted: Jan 11th, 2021 - 1:02 pm

1.  My ex-husband passed on December 24.  I had not seen him or had contact with him for going on 40 years.  We were married only six years.  We had no children because he did not want any.  A counselor had told me that none of my needs were being met at the time.  Also, family and friends exclaimed "Good for you!  What took you so long!!!" when I told them of my plans to go ahead with the divorce.  Nevertheless, the current news of his passing hit me so hard!  I never once dreamt that I would be grieving like this!  

Sadness #2:  My beloved dog, Sammy, passed this morning with the aid of the vet.  He had some medical challenges. and my current husband and I could not bear to see him suffer any longer.  We had him for twelve years.  The grief is still fresh and intense.  I have been through situations of losing pets before and I know that only time will ease this.  I guess I am just hoping for a little input on what has helped others.  I have already washed the two blankets that Sammy loved and plan to donate them, along with what is left of his doggie food and treats to a shelter.  His 6 special toys still remain in a corner of the living room.  Should I wash them up and donate them also, or would it do me any good to keep them?  I am just crying when I feel like it whenever the waves of grief come over me and not trying to hide the tears at all.  This is so hard!!!  


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