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Please pray for my child

Posted: Feb 28, 2017

I was diagnosed with breast cancer yesterday, spread to the lymph nodes, and that is without a tissue diagnosis yet. It is that clear on the ultrasound.

I adopted my granddaughter 7 years ago and that anniversary was this weekend. Four years ago this past weekend, my mother died and in her will left me her house and land. Unfortunately my sister had POA and had sold the house prior to my mom's death, then claimed there was nothing left of the estate - she kept the money and has been getting her passport stamped all around the world.

I know that I don't have cancer because of my sister, but her actions caused me to delay seeking treatment.

I earn $2100 a month. They want to do double mastectomies and axillary resection but only after chemo. I won't be able to work. There is no family to help. I am isolated at home

Today I'm dealing with a lot of blame and unacceptance. I don't want to die, I do want to die. I can't leave my little girl after she was already left by her parents. I can't let her see what I'm going through. She may not recover.

Please pray for us.

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Prayers for you! - anonon

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Don't give up. there are lots of agencies that help women with breast cancer with both emotional support and monetary. I am sure your doctor's office can steer you to the right places. Don't hesitate to ask for help - it is out there for you, all you need to do is ask! This is a horribly hard thing to go through, but you sound like a very strong woman with all you have already been through. You can fight this and win! Keep your daughter close and let her see that her mother is better than any damn cancer and that it will not defeat you! Many prayers for you and your daughter! Keep us posted.

prayers - 1shopper

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Please know I am thinking of you at this difficult time. There are people who can help you pay for all this and get you some support. Try to keep a positive attitude to help in your fight with breast cancer. May God give you strength.

Prayers for you - Sally

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. I will pray for you to have strength and peace during this incredibly difficult time.

Many prayers - for you

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What unfortunate circumstances for you! I am so sorry! It must seem that the world has fallen in on you! You need to seek counseling; there must be free counseling for you in the area where you live. Sympathy on your mother passing and sympathy for the lack of understanding and selfishness from your sister! No doubt your granddaughter is your main priority. May the angels watch over both you and your granddaughter. I can't even imagine facing what you are facing. What God lays before us in life oftentimes make no sense but one day, we will have all the answers.

Is there any way possible - anonymous

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you could have a conversation with your sister about what is happening to you? Without knowing anything about your lifelong relationship with her, she is your next of kin and if she has any love for you and you for her, then maybe a whole lot of good would come from reconnecting heart to heart. Please consider it. At times like these, the people you think you should write off just may be the ones who become a source of strength and support for you and your little girl. Let your sister know what is happening in your life. God works in mysterious ways... Keeping you and your child in my prayers...

Prayed for you this morning - Alexis

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Prayer said just now for you and your little girl. Trust in Jesus. It is hard to have faith at times like this, but hold onto him. Do you have a pastor or priest you can go talk to? This can help so much. Again, I will pray for you each day. God loves you both. He will provide.

Help may be available - Kim

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You may qualify for Disability, even if it is only until you can work again. I do not know what state you live in or your age, but I feel that you would certainly meet the criteria for Disability benefits. Also, if you need help with medical expenses, the Patient Foundation helped my sister-in-law when she had breast cancer and could not afford a very expensive medication that greatly helped her disease. They paid the entire amount for her. I understand your fear and anxiety about this, being alone with all of this coming down on you like an earthquake, but it will help you fight if you look into options now that could really help you later, because help is out there. Some attorneys offer a free phone consult regarding Disability and could direct you where to start. I pray for you and your little girl, and trust that God will show you the way through all of this nightmare.

The eternal God is thy refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms.

I want to share the story below with you:

A lady who was facing difficult trials and troubling circumstances came to her pastor at the close of a sermon and said, “I’m very much afraid I might fall.” He replied, “Well, why don’t you do it?” “But Preacher,” she protested, “where would I fall to?” “You would fall down into the everlasting arms of God, came his reply. Then he said, “I have read in the Bible that His everlasting arms are underneath His children and you know, I believe that if you fall down upon those everlasting arms, it is sure and certain that you will never fall through them.”

Take care, God Bless. My prayers will be said for you each day.

thank you for your prayers and encouragement - slowgrowing

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I got the path results. It is malignant. With its size and spread to lymph nodes, clinically it is a stage 3 breast cancer.

I will be meeting with the oncologist this week to get started with more diagnostics before finalizing plans for chemo. That could take four months. followed by mastectomies then radiation, the optional reconstruction.

I let myself fall apart the first couple of days, but then I started seeing people on Facebook who are going through what i am, and I have admit, the look pretty darn good, not like the concentration camp survivors I had pictured in my mind. I will take things one day at a day. Please continue to pray with us!

Sounding positive!! - Kim

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You are sounding a lot better! Good for you!! You are going to be fine. Take it 1 step at a time and gather all the support you need to from us here on this board, Facebook, and of course the Good Lord! He will get you through this working through your doctors, technicians, nurses, friends, and all of us here. Please continue to come back here and post. We are all praying for you and would like to keep track of how you are doing. God bless!

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