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Posted: Dec 9, 2010

This has been a pretty upsetting year for my 10 year old boy (5th grade, and 6th grade advanced math -- two schools).  He is considered gifted and his teacher is a crazy person.  She says there is nothing that she can do to teach him this year, as he is already reading at post 12th grade level.  Her main curriculum is arts and crafts, weaving, knitting, finger-painting, cutting and pasting, and coloring.  I expressed this concern at conferences and she said if I had any ideas on what to teach him to let her know.  (what?!?)  I had a meeting with the principal after that and she said she would look into it, so far nothing. 

Anyhow, yesterday he informs me that during his reading time, he and the other three advanced students, all girls, were told to take her car keys, walk roughly 500 feet to the teacher's parking lot, find her car, retrieve 58 skeins of yarn, return to school and use the key to the school door she had provided them with to get back in.  Of note, the temperature was 18 degrees.  Yes, they had their boots and coats.  My point is, when I drop my child off at school, I expect him to be safe and supervised at all times.  Any number of horrible things could have happened to those kids.  I talked to the principal again today, she assured me that it would not happen again, but that obviously the teacher thought the children were considered responsible enough to be sent on such a mission.  Sort of losing my patience with this.  What more can I do?  Thanks for letting me vent.

 

 

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re: momma - teacher in training

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I'm almost finished with school, getting degreed in teaching.

First, go speak to the teacher and principal again, insist that they take action, NOW. If they stall, as diplomatically and sweet as you can be, tell them that your next step is to contact the district administrators.

With the principal in the room, ask the teacher what her reasoning was in sending the children outside on a personal errand. Explain that you don't appreciate it considering safety factors and don't want it to happen again. They are her students, not gophers (go for this, go for that...)

It is absolutely the duty and responsibilty of the teacher and ultimately the district to challenge your son's superior abilities. sometimes GT classes are not enough or just not necessary! (yeah, I said it!). Children like yours need constant challenges and stimulation. They go stagnant when there isn't enough to keep them busy. So, if he's reading at a 12th grade level, give him college level material! If he's kicking booty in math, talk to the local high schools about sending him challenge material! tell them to assign him a tutor to continue to stimulate him!

I understand your frustration in this. I worked at a school with high-functioning children (they aren't always super genius children by the way, they just "get it" a lot sooner than most) and they do often get shoved aside just like you are saying! As an intern I was viewed as an opportunity to keep these kids "busy" and figured out that rather than play with crayons and toys, they'd rather be challenged at a bigger level. It makes them feel accomplished and gives satisfaction.

Unfortunately a lot of schools worry about their state scores and the teachers themselves are overwhelmed trying to play catch up with the children who are behind (unfortunately, that is a large number in the U.S.) and neglect the children who are passing or excelling.

Another option; ask about other schools in the disctric that may be able to better serve your child if they can't help you, and ask for a transfer.

Good luck momma. Word of advice: TENACITY. Don't let ANYONE drop the ball on your son.

Have you considered - sm

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homeschooling? I homeschool our 3 children (12, 14 and 17). I decided to homeschool a few years ago for various reasons and have never had a moment of regret. There are a ton of free programs out there that I can point you to. I work full-time while I homeschool too, so it can be done! Email me if I can help!

I do think that the teacher should be teaching more... - mothertoo

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than arts and crafts, but as far as the car errand goes, I don't really see any reason that 3 10-year-olds are not capable of going to a car, getting yarn and coming back in. If your child can read on a 12th grade level, I certainly think that he can figure out how to unlock a door. I don't think that the errand would upset me, but that is just me. Hope things get better for you and your son, just thought that I would offer a different perspective. I think that it is unlikely that anything bad is going to happen to three children together walking out to a car and back in the building. Just my opinion. And, it is just the kind of thing I would have LOVED to do as a 5th grader.

Whoops... - momtoo

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I guess that 1 boy + 3 girls actually equals 4 kids. Maybe I should have your gifted son teach me to add! ;-D

my brother - orthogirl

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was in the Talent and Gifted program when he was in school and they learned a lot of mythology in English but never really how to dissect a sentence. Also, he did first and second grade in one year and then they skipped him up a grade. He was already a little younger than most other kids in his grade as his birthday is in November, so he really started school when he was 4. He actually regrets being in the TAG program when he was younger as he felt he never really learned fundamentals. My son started reading when he was 3 and so did my brother. I do agree that arts and crafts are inappropriate, but you have to make sure he has down the basics of the lessons before she gives up on that. A lot of people assume because they can read that they can do everything. It is good review for him to hear the lesson and then either give him a more advanced assignment or pair him up with one of the other kids in the class that is having a hard time. When my son was in 5th grade he was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome (very high functioning autism) and he had a hard time writing. He is very, very good when he does write something but getting to the point of putting a paragraph or sometimes just a sentence on the paper was like making a turnip bleed. He had a lot of social skill issues. Anyways, they put him in a special ed class for the extra one on one help. The special ed teacher paired him up with another boy who was very social and outgoing but having problems with the a learning disability. They became very good friends and Danny actually really helped Evan a lot with his reading and math and Even helped Danny a lot with his social skills. Also it gave Danny a sense of accomplishment to help someone else out. Your son could end up really helping another child in his class while he might really end up with something in return as well as a feeling of accomplishment. Sometimes kids can explain something to another kid in a way that they would understand each other and a way the teacher might have not thought of. Danny was reading books like The Principles of Microbiology in 5th grade, so I get it.

As far as the incident with the car, I too think this is totally unacceptable. I am sure the kids really felt grown up getting to go to the car, but the schools are locked during the day and have extra security now-a-says for a reason. I would report this to the board of education in your area if the principle does not do something about this.

I would stay away from home schooling, as I really feel that the social interaction that the kids have during the day at school is a key part of their education. Of course, my kids have social skill problems from their autism and even in the summer, they had to be signed up in programs for the socialization factor, but even if they did not have these issues, it is still important to learn the social skills and be around other kids.

It sounds like you have a wonderful child and continue to nurture him and always be his advocate!

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