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i think i just ticked off my roommate

Posted: Nov 22, 2011

my roommate's father passed a month ago and he has been trying to take care of stuff his dad wanted done...one includes the dad's dog (who is a dear boxer)...now roomie has been staying in berkeley at dad's house trying to get things in order with the apartments and the other stuff, but the brother brought a lawsuit saying he is living there and getting all the benefits (brother is a heroine addict)...sooooo, roomie turned in the dog to ARF this morning and i called ARF saying i want the dog...he was crying last night about turning tommy over to strangers and i feel that i have enough room in my home to take care of tommy in his old age...should i do this???

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Confused about why he is ticked? - Think that would be a good thing

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nm

I also think it would be a good thing. - Did you ask him if he was mad about it?

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It could be he thought you were undermining his decision. It is an emotional time for him, obviously, and it sounds like he has a lot to deal with. Getting a deceased family member's affairs in order is tough enough (trust me), but a brother suing him on top of it?!? Talk to Roomie when he is calmer. Hopefully everything will turn out okay between you two and he will let you take in Tommy. It always breaks my heart to see older dogs in shelters. IMO, you would be doing a wonderful thing.

i think i just ticked off my roommate - just sad for the dog

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the problem is that Tommy is a sweet dog, named after my roomies brother who was killed in SF...too many memories for him and he and his father never really got along...tolerated each other, but the thing is, his mom and i were dear friends and she asked me to make sure her son would always have a place to live and i feel obligated to include the dog...because of the sentimental thing...

Totally agree with you/NM - Christine

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xx

i think i just ticked off my roommate - oops

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he's not mad about it, he just wants to divest himself of his father's stuff...has offered to donate the apartment building and homes to charity unless someone buys him out to...i guess i can just hope for the best with the dog...

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