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I am so dreading it. There are 4 of us siblings. I'm executor. Everyone is okay with having an auction, but first they want go to through everything. I just know after that, there won't be anything left to auction and I'll be stuck finding new homes for the rest. What I'd like to do is set a limit to everyone being allowed to have a random number of items, perhaps 10, that they would like to have. The rest if they want it bad enough could be bought at auction.
One sibling is a pack rat and wants anything antique. Another sibling and myself only wants 1 or 2 items as a remembrance. I'm not sure of what the 4th sibling wants, the 2 items he said so far just in passing were just sentimental to him.
We did have a family meeting in the house so that they could do a walk-through because they did not really know what was in the house, upstairs, etc. I had told everyone we are not taking anything out of the house, it had to be appraised yet (2 wks ago). My sister had the audacity to actually walk out the door with a pickle jar!! Then the next week, she called and wanted some potting soil that was at mom's. I told her again no, the appraisal is not done and we are not taking anything out of the house.
I'm not sure how this dividing contents work. If one sibling takes away more items with higher value than another sibling that only wants one item, is that reported to the court and then is reflected when the funds are dispensed? I have a meeting with the attorney late next week, but this question is weighing heavily on my mind this weekend.
I'm trying my best to keep everything civil but it's difficult knowing two personalities are to take any and everything they can get while they can and if they can't, sneak it out. I do know when we divide things up, the pickle jar will be in her column. :)
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