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And the punches keep rolling

Posted: May 12, 2011

Another bit of news for those of you who have followed my posts the last couple of months - my (now) ex of just one week has informed me that he is getting married. He left to move to another state today so i don't know whether they did it this morning on their way to move or if they are going to do it once they get up there. So essentially my 10 year old son is going to have a step-mom that not only has he never met before but is also the one that broke up his family to begin with. How messed up is that?!?! And I wondered this morning what she must be thinking. He left his wife and family for her - how can she not think that he will do the same to her??? Unbelievable!!!! MEN - UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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So sorry - sereneone

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A former boss of mine did what your ex did. He and his lady friend were married for years and years, though she never really had more than a civil relationship with the kids. He eventually started openly stepping out with a younger, 30-something, he was in mid-50s at the time, buxom blond bimbo. They actually separated and he was living with the bimbo for a while. But, since his financial position had changed DRASTICALLY for the better in the years the family-breaker had been married to him, she had him by the you know whats and he eventually went back to her rather than give up half in a divorce settlement. I suspect there were more episodes of him stepping out but the bimbo is the only one that ever got her hooks into him deep enough for him to change his life.

Only thing though, he at least took care of his kids and was always a good dad. And stayed in the same area at least where they lived.

I\'m so sorry for you and your son but especially for your son since he now has an absent dad.

He is such a sweethart- sm -

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total lowlife, lied again to you about not leaving you for her, etc. I hope you and you son can get over the anger and sadness in time. I presume not much visitation will be happening, though not sure your son would want to anyway. Very sad for him. This woman is not thinking about the future when he turns around and does it to her, but when he does it will be her just desserts.

FYI, Something to keep in mind in the future. I think you said you had been married over 10 years, if so when it is it is time to get SS and you are not married at that time (assuming SS is still around), and if your ex made more money than you then you entitled to his amount SS payment IF it would be larger than your own. It does not affect his SS payment, and he cannot stop you from doing this. You don't even have to tell him, or need his "permission". You probably need his SS# which you probaby already have from tax returns. So just something to squirrel away in your head, but you had to have been married for at least ten years to qualify for this.

Good Luck!

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