Home     Contact Us    
Main Board Job Seeker's Board Job Wanted Board Resume Bank Company Board Word Help M*Modal Nuance New MTs Classifieds Offshore Concerns VR/Speech Recognition Tech Help Coding/Medical Billing
Gab Board Politics Comedy Stop Games Faith Board Prayer Requests Health Issues


ADVERTISEMENT



Gab Board

I Agree - Well Put

Posted: Apr 15th, 2019 - 3:39 pm In Reply to: You may need to decide - sm

These people are going to be angry with her no matter what she does, so she may as well just limit time or break off with them.

To OP: You are a very calm, wonderful person....I can see that....but you know it's taking a toll on you. It can be hard getting out of a weird dynamic, but it can be done. If you just can't do it on your own, then maybe talking to a counselor will help you. I had to break off with my parents completely (long story), but it was the best thing I ever did. Fortunately, I have 3 normal siblings, and we are fine there.

You sound like a wonderful daughter and sister, but at least limiting time with these people would do wonders for you. As one poster said, you can't fix or control them, but you can adjust your decision to keep allowing yourself to be in the middle. Soak in the good people in your life.



ADVERTISEMENT


Post A Reply Reply By Email Options


Complete Discussion Below: ( marks the location of current message within thread)